Because when you say stuff like "men are inferior, we need to accept our place", etc you identify with men rather than women. It seems like a fetish to me.
As a trans-woman others still recognize me as if I were a cis-man, so why not play off that in conversations?
I didnt ask about passing. I asked about why you kept identifying as a man.
As a trans-woman others still recognize me as if I were a cis-man, so why not play off that in conversations?
I didnt ask about passing. I asked about why you kept identifying as a man.
The 'so why not play off that in conversations?' was my answer.
I swear you seem more fixated on gender labels than the trans person in this conversation.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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12/29/2021 9:29:45 AM
As a trans-woman others still recognize me as if I were a cis-man, so why not play off that in conversations?
I didnt ask about passing. I asked about why you kept identifying as a man.
The 'so why not play off that in conversations?' was my answer.
I swear you seem more fixated on gender labels than the trans person in this conversation.
You're not trans, dumbass.
You label yourself as a man when its convienient.
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12/29/2021 9:47:57 AM
As a trans-woman others still recognize me as if I were a cis-man, so why not play off that in conversations?
I didnt ask about passing. I asked about why you kept identifying as a man.
The 'so why not play off that in conversations?' was my answer.
I swear you seem more fixated on gender labels than the trans person in this conversation.You're not trans, dumbass.
You label yourself as a man when its convienient.
No, I just don't immediately correct people and otherwise go within their schematic rather than expecting people to call me by my preferred pronoun. As a trans-woman I've otherwise had to face many of the constraints of a man, so oftentimes some of those areas apply in conversation.
If someone drops a 'men like us' statement at me, it tends to save time to not 'Ackshully' every single time. I find it more uncomfortable to go out of my way to correct that sort of thing rather than just sit through it, and a sense of humor like 'man zoo' doesn't really get in the way of that.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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12/29/2021 10:10:27 AM
Perhaps you're more of a sissy than an actual trans woman? You said you think men are inferior but still identify as male. Everything about you reeks of fetishism.
I don't identify as a male so much as I recognize how much others are liable to impose that on me and don't interrupt.
It's easier to not interrupt people, and how I feel about my gender doesn't need to be imposed on other people.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
Perhaps you're more of a sissy than an actual trans woman? You said you think men are inferior but still identify as male. Everything about you reeks of fetishism.
I don't identify as a male so much as I recognize how much others are liable to impose that on me and don't interrupt.
It's easier to not interrupt people, and how I feel about my gender doesn't need to be imposed on other people.
It seems like you're imposing maleness on yourself through your association of being male with weak and inferior more than anything.