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🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

I don't really know what to think at this point. Sometimes the shit people say just feels alien to me, honestly. 

My mom told me she wants to adopt an 18 year old which I don't even know if thats possible, which is actually fine as long as she doesn't abuse them, power to em. 

But she says she wants to adopt a pregnant 18 year old so she can have "normal grandkids who are not autistic." 

This just seems like a jab, also nonsensical when you look at the constraints of adoption itself.

Once they're 18 they're legally an adult, what would she even be doing? It's like she wants to say she's a mother of someone who she wouldn't have to take care of. 

so yeah, she wants to replace me, even though I am going through hell trying to use the land I just bought to makes good homestead so I can care for my family and have kids and make sure my parents never have to go to an old folks home, in an affordable way. 

What purpose does your mother serve in your life at this point? 

Turncoat said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

I don't really know what to think at this point. Sometimes the shit people say just feels alien to me, honestly. 

My mom told me she wants to adopt an 18 year old which I don't even know if thats possible, which is actually fine as long as she doesn't abuse them, power to em. 

But she says she wants to adopt a pregnant 18 year old so she can have "normal grandkids who are not autistic." 

This just seems like a jab, also nonsensical when you look at the constraints of adoption itself.

Once they're 18 they're legally an adult, what would she even be doing? It's like she wants to say she's a mother of someone who she wouldn't have to take care of. 

Yeah, that's why I said I was confused on if that's even possible. I men adult adoption Isa thing, and it serves many purposes from helping gay couples get more rights even though they couldn't marry, to a feel good moment of officially adopting an adult you practically raised as a child but couldn't make it official for one reason or another, it isn't typically used in this context

so yeah, she wants to replace me, elven though I am going through hell trying to use the land I just bought to makes good homestead so I can care for my family and have kids and make sure my parents never have to go to an old folks home, in an affordable way. 

What purpose does your mother serve in your life at this point? 

 She is my MOM. her basically saying she want to replace me is understandably heartbreaking. 

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

Turncoat said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

I don't really know what to think at this point. Sometimes the shit people say just feels alien to me, honestly. 

My mom told me she wants to adopt an 18 year old which I don't even know if thats possible, which is actually fine as long as she doesn't abuse them, power to em. 

But she says she wants to adopt a pregnant 18 year old so she can have "normal grandkids who are not autistic." 

This just seems like a jab, also nonsensical when you look at the constraints of adoption itself.

Once they're 18 they're legally an adult, what would she even be doing? It's like she wants to say she's a mother of someone who she wouldn't have to take care of. 

Yeah, that's why I said I was confused on if that's even possible. I men adult adoption Isa thing, and it serves many purposes from helping gay couples get more rights even though they couldn't marry, to a feel good moment of officially adopting an adult you practically raised as a child but couldn't make it official for one reason or another, it isn't typically used in this context

so yeah, she wants to replace me, elven though I am going through hell trying to use the land I just bought to makes good homestead so I can care for my family and have kids and make sure my parents never have to go to an old folks home, in an affordable way. 

What purpose does your mother serve in your life at this point? 

 She is my MOM. her basically saying she want to replace me is understandably heartbreaking. 

 she sounds like a cunt tbh. if anything she should be using this time to make up for how she failed you as a mother, but  it seems like she is subtly placing the blame on you for being autistic as though that was why things happened the way they did.

does she know about what happened with BR?