Scripturally ?
like it should be consensual, but Jesus says that a married Christian couple should have s** as often as either of them want it and to drink plentiful from their own well so that they are not tempted into lust
so I have been addressing this to Jesus, and it even caused me to re-divorce him because I did not feel loved
even though I am disrespectful to Jesus and my relationship with him currently, due mostly to not knowing any better and being stuck in sinful addictions and blinded by various sinful habits which he is supposed to be responsible for healing and leading and guiding me out of btw I still do not think that this is a justifiable enough excuse to not be making love to your wife in the process
so I am feeling very pessimistic about my relationship with him currently and I feel like he is disobeying his own scriptures but maybe there is something that I am missing probably because I am stupid