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Damn man Sugar really hates me. 

Turncoat said: 

Damn man Sugar really hates me. 

 You escalated things I think by accident but I don't think you tried to make anything worse 

And I know you didn't tell anybody to do anything

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

Turncoat said: 

Damn man Sugar really hates me. 

 You escalated things I think by accident but I don't think you tried to make anything worse 

And I know you didn't tell anybody to do anything

Yeah but to some degree you still "Blame the Messenger". 

You seem to be blaming me for not calling 911 on you two in spite of how you didn't want that done either. I just let him know of what you're saying on here and said in his shoes I'd leave, and it's through how hard he fought to stay that he ended up responding this way. There's also your past penchant for odd behaviors and lashing out here when you're more emotional which when put next to someone who's either calmly explaining things or otherwise confused where your ideas are even coming from it has a way of making you look less believable. 

Also if you think I was making excuses for him "raping" people that's out of line, when you were pretending to be him it was a long series of why it's wrong and how others are liable to respond to the news while otherwise assuring I'd not be the one to call the cops but someone would if this continues. Considering how you made him sound when you were typing as him you made it genuinely sound like he didn't know the difference and that he'd risk doing it again purely over misunderstanding that it's occuring in the first place, and in such a case if he'd continued to not get it then you'd need to go. 

I also assumed you'd never find the strength to be the one to leave him, but to my surprise you claim to be the one keeping him from coming back instead of the other way around which, to me, amounts to about the same thing. With the lengths you'd go to push him into doing the things you wanted before I didn't figure you'd be capable of letting go, and maybe to some degree you still can't, but it's definitely more so than I'd given you credit prior. 

Frankly, I still think you both are better off separated, as like I've repeated multiple times, if either or both of you are correct about the other then shit's pretty fucked up. 

🌺plumeria🌺 said:  

Do you mean me?
 

talking about tc, the comment is mostly meant to be jocular. not really seeing the argument for her causing a strangulation other than "you should have known br acts out and would do it again if provoked," but i doubt that holds much water

Tryptamine said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said:  

Do you mean me?
 

talking about tc, the comment is mostly meant to be jocular. not really seeing the argument for her causing a strangulation other than "you should have known br acts out and would do it again if provoked," but i doubt that holds much water

I was definitely not advising him about how he should leave to get him violent, quite the opposite. 

Dude was going nuts over her drama and he needed to get out, and from the continued storytelling of Delora it looks like she needed to get out too. He legit told me he couldn't leave without Delora doing 'something insane' and sending him to prison regardless of if he did or didn't do anything. 

Tryptamine said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said:  

Do you mean me?
 

talking about tc, the comment is mostly meant to be jocular. not really seeing the argument for her causing a strangulation other than "you should have known br acts out and would do it again if provoked," but i doubt that holds much water

 I don't really know. Tc knew things he was saying triggered him but continued to do so. However, I think it was out of negligence rather than malace

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

Tryptamine said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said:  

Do you mean me?
 

talking about tc, the comment is mostly meant to be jocular. not really seeing the argument for her causing a strangulation other than "you should have known br acts out and would do it again if provoked," but i doubt that holds much water

 I don't really know. Tc knew things he was saying triggered him but continued to do so. However, I think it was out of negligence rather than malace

sometimes making a person snap helps them to realize stuff they're repressing. it's still a stretch to say she had control over what would happen next

Turncoat said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

Turncoat said: 

Damn man Sugar really hates me. 

 You escalated things I think by accident but I don't think you tried to make anything worse 

And I know you didn't tell anybody to do anything

Yeah but to some degree you still "Blame the Messenger". 

You knew his responses but continued. You wanted to keep all his shit secret you didn't want anyone to know

You seem to be blaming me for not calling 911 on you two in spite of how you didn't want that done either. I just let him know of what you're saying on here and said in his shoes I'd leave, and it's through how hard he fought to stay that he ended up responding this way. There's also your past penchant for odd behaviors and lashing out here when you're more emotional which when put next to someone who's either calmly explaining things or otherwise confused where your ideas are even coming from it has a way of making you look less believable. 

???

Also if you think I was making excuses for him "raping" people that's out of line, when you were pretending to be him it was a long series of why it's wrong and how others are liable to respond to the news while otherwise assuring I'd not be the one to call the cops but someone would if this continues.

I wanted to scare him away, he would not go away and I wanted to stay here and I couldn't go away because he can get jobs and I can't without goodwill or salvation army and I was on a waiting list and couldn't leave but neither would he

Considering how you made him sound when you were typing as him you made it genuinely sound like he didn't know the difference and that he'd risk doing it again purely over misunderstanding that it's occuring in the first place, and in such a case if he'd continued to not get it then you'd need to go. 

I wanted you to talk to him. Everything I said we're actually copy pastes of his own words.

I also assumed you'd never find the strength to be the one to leave him, but to my surprise you claim to be the one keeping him from coming back instead of the other way around which, to me, amounts to about the same thing. With the lengths you'd go to push him into doing the things you wanted before I didn't figure you'd be capable of letting go, and maybe to some degree you still can't, but it's definitely more so than I'd given you credit prior. 

Yes I can its him who wont

Frankly, I still think you both are better off separated, as like I've repeated multiple times, if either or both of you are correct about the other then shit's pretty fucked up. 

 Agreed

Sc saved me from him. I regret nothing. 

I don't want sex I want a playmate

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

Turncoat said: 

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

Turncoat said: 

Damn man Sugar really hates me. 

 You escalated things I think by accident but I don't think you tried to make anything worse 

And I know you didn't tell anybody to do anything

Yeah but to some degree you still "Blame the Messenger". 

You knew his responses but continued. You wanted to keep all his shit secret you didn't want anyone to know

I didn't think he was doing anything to you he hadn't otherwise mentioned himself, and to be honest even now I'm not so sure when his supposed 'confession' was you in a BR suit the entire time. Once you started doing that shit it was even further confirmed for me that you aren't to be trusted. 

You wanted to air out why he's a bad person for the sole reason that people were otherwise defending him. When no one attacked him you'd try to tarnish his character before trying to drag him on here to see it, and this had been going on long before you made it about rape and strangulation which gave the appearance of a pattern, one where you see him getting praises and would insist on bringing him down to your level and having people find him less fun to be around.

To me this looked like you trying to isolate him through exaggerations, misunderstandings, and straight spite at points by making sure people here'd not talk to him, and then your continuing to find it a threat when he could still talk to me further confirmed that line of thinking.

When you're already prone to trying to tell us how shitty he is, for years, and people on here aren't budging to your drama anymore? It stands to question if you're really meaning those things or if you're simply escalating the situation to get that sweet supply of attention BR wasn't feeding you at the time. 

Also if you think I was making excuses for him "raping" people that's out of line, when you were pretending to be him it was a long series of why it's wrong and how others are liable to respond to the news while otherwise assuring I'd not be the one to call the cops but someone would if this continues.

I wanted to scare him away, he would not go away and I wanted to stay here and I couldn't go away because he can get jobs and I can't without goodwill or salvation army and I was on a waiting list and couldn't leave but neither would he

This behavior of yours has been present here before you made it about rape and strangulation. 

What was it about in your POV for why you were doing that prior to this stage of escalation? Why did you feel the need to post paragraphs about how shitty he is to the people here when they'd speak of him in a good light like you had something to prove, unless you're meaning to tell me the beatings and strangulation and shit's been the case for years now? 

 

Frankly, I still think you both are better off separated, as like I've repeated multiple times, if either or both of you are correct about the other then shit's pretty fucked up. 

 Agreed