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For me right now a relationship would be highest priority and I would adapt a lot for it e.gl work less etc so I can not really relate to these people. 

u sound like a narc

focus on your creepiness first or else you might as well give up

Friedrich said: 

So I notice how I am expected to adapt to people's life's in a relationship. For example, they tend to have strong career ambitions etc and it is not that I mean nothing to them but it seems the same level of priority or higher priority for them to strive in their career. I am willing to compromise and sacrifice but sometimes I thi k I am getting a bad deal. The other person gets to have their needs aka dream job status etc fulfilled AND be together with me and I have a shitty relationship where I don't see them as much as I want to. I feel betrayed or like I'm being scammed. Is this a wronfng way of thinking? I'm also gettinfng positive out of it. The time together is good and so on. 

It's up to you..... Where do you place the balance?

If you feel betrayed and it bothers you, then maybe don't do it..? If it doesn't bother you that much... then do it. As long as you're not conflict-avoidant and bottle things up... you're good.

Weird, if you truly liked this person you would encourage them to be great.

LiYang said: 

If I like someone I place high expectations on them.