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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

Hawaii is just extremely expensive and until we get the land on dec 6 as a couple this is our most affordable option.

Wait so I was right? You were trying to tell me it was going to be a cheap dreamlike experience. 

 Yeah once we have land, which we will. It is cheap tbh if you want to commit to a regular lease, but we dont because we want to go straight to our land. It also would have been doable if br didn't quit his job. Also 400 a month is pretty cheap, even for a campsite

That's cheaper than a motel, but my experiences with campsites weren't that pricey. 

 Yeah but also most campsites make you there temporarily and don't provide you the tent bed ect when you get there 

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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

Hawaii is just extremely expensive and until we get the land on dec 6 as a couple this is our most affordable option.

Wait so I was right? You were trying to tell me it was going to be a cheap dreamlike experience. 

 Yeah once we have land, which we will. It is cheap tbh if you want to commit to a regular lease, but we dont because we want to go straight to our land. It also would have been doable if br didn't quit his job. Also 400 a month is pretty cheap, even for a campsite

That's cheaper than a motel, but my experiences with campsites weren't that pricey. 

 Yeah but also most campsites make you there temporarily and don't provide you the tent bed ect when you get there 

Still seems like a ripoff imo, it's a tent. 

Isn't it also somewhat of a shared space rather than just a nice little spot for you two? 

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last edit on 12/1/2021 10:50:26 PM
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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

Hawaii is just extremely expensive and until we get the land on dec 6 as a couple this is our most affordable option.

Wait so I was right? You were trying to tell me it was going to be a cheap dreamlike experience. 

 Yeah once we have land, which we will. It is cheap tbh if you want to commit to a regular lease, but we dont because we want to go straight to our land. It also would have been doable if br didn't quit his job. Also 400 a month is pretty cheap, even for a campsite

That's cheaper than a motel, but my experiences with campsites weren't that pricey. 

 Yeah but also most campsites make you there temporarily and don't provide you the tent bed ect when you get there 

Still seems like a ripoff imo, it's a tent. 

Isn't it also somewhat of a shared space rather than just a nice little spot for you two? 

 Yes

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Posts: 2504
0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

Hawaii is just extremely expensive and until we get the land on dec 6 as a couple this is our most affordable option.

Wait so I was right? You were trying to tell me it was going to be a cheap dreamlike experience. 

 Yeah once we have land, which we will. It is cheap tbh if you want to commit to a regular lease, but we dont because we want to go straight to our land. It also would have been doable if br didn't quit his job. Also 400 a month is pretty cheap, even for a campsite

That's cheaper than a motel, but my experiences with campsites weren't that pricey. 

 Yeah but also most campsites make you there temporarily and don't provide you the tent bed ect when you get there 

Still seems like a ripoff imo, it's a tent. 

Isn't it also somewhat of a shared space rather than just a nice little spot for you two? 

 It works to have a place to sleep. Soon we have our own land, and no need to pay rent

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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

I'm starting to wonder if Sugar wants them separated as much as others here, but is trying to do it through Del instead. 

She tends to take the side of women.

 also keep in mind i have heard from many ppl that he beats her, supposedly raped her...wouldn't matter if she was male or female, i defended tc's bitchass when crow was laughing at his suicide attempt and he was male then.

I think you empathize a bit more with women's struggles with men, especially when it comes to things like physical violence and maybe cheating. In the case where BR's side might make the rape situation more ambiguous, you'd probably still be inclined to take Delora's side. That doesn't make anything wrong...if he did actually rape her, there's no good justification. 

Yeah really though Sug's mocked me for being rapeable and shit, she'd never do that to a cis-woman. 

He continues to tell me that didn't happen and did so with the appearance of shock rather than justification or defensiveness. He was outright confused compared to other times where he saw it coming while defending it hasn't been more than spooning with the idea that sleep sex is creepy. 

He then asked me if he should just never spoon with her again.

It doesn't seem like he's interested in explaining himself here, though.

He recognizes the escalation it'd lead to while he's otherwise been trying to be done with this website overall. 

He wants to blame SC and cellphones more than her for her behavior, so naturally he stays away. The place seems disgusting to him and he thinks it's tainting her mind, rather than this website being a platform for her to be her true self. 

 that's a lie, i certainly don't think you're rapeable, i think you were calling CS a liar cos she said jim raped her & i asked how you'd feel about ppl saying that to ur own rape story

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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

I'm starting to wonder if Sugar wants them separated as much as others here, but is trying to do it through Del instead. 

She tends to take the side of women.

 also keep in mind i have heard from many ppl that he beats her, supposedly raped her...wouldn't matter if she was male or female, i defended tc's bitchass when crow was laughing at his suicide attempt and he was male then.

I think you empathize a bit more with women's struggles with men, especially when it comes to things like physical violence and maybe cheating. In the case where BR's side might make the rape situation more ambiguous, you'd probably still be inclined to take Delora's side. That doesn't make anything wrong...if he did actually rape her, there's no good justification. It doesn't seem like he's interested in explaining himself here, though.

 yea that's true, i do like to empower women

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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

He broke my phone now but, he gave me his so I guess we are cool.

Is he still blaming the website and tech for your behavior? 

We have no money, so I told him, he has to make all the money back going around the neighborhood collecting bottles and cans to sell to the recycling center, to make back the money he stole. To replace the phone he gave me his but I will share it with him. After he makes the money back we are going to the store to buy food and batteries in bulk with the money. He also has to take trips to the food pantry and bring back beans and rice and bread. He does feel bad 

Poor BR. 

 Poor br, stole 40$ and has to earn it back, the horror.

 HAHAHA YASSSSS

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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

He broke my phone now but, he gave me his so I guess we are cool.

Is he still blaming the website and tech for your behavior? 

We have no money, so I told him, he has to make all the money back going around the neighborhood collecting bottles and cans to sell to the recycling center, to make back the money he stole. To replace the phone he gave me his but I will share it with him. After he makes the money back we are going to the store to buy food and batteries in bulk with the money. He also has to take trips to the food pantry and bring back beans and rice and bread. He does feel bad 

Poor BR. 

 Poor br, stole 40$ and has to earn it back, the horror.

For real though you still don't get why it happened and now he's back in his self-blame cycles where he follows your orders to the letter when the bottling process restarts. 

Sounds like BPD (its BR thats BPD in this case) issue

Cheery bye!
last edit on 12/2/2021 8:12:27 AM
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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

 that's nice if he is genuinely sorry and trying to make up for upsetting her.

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0 votes RE: my husband stole forty bucks from me to get high and then hogge...

You know he hates it more than anything when you post this stuff for everyone here to see..... right? Why do it, then?

*wink wink*

I know. You just can't resist, can you? It's understandable. You are very much like Friedrich/d7.

Buttered Toast: (Lolling at a German dude's English grammar)
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