do you know what I thought when I met you? I thought you were adorable af, you could totally pass as a girl. your obsessing so much you don't even see it and it's sad af, this is like body dysmorphia, you are hot put on some fucking makeup bitch
You've said otherwise while mad at me.
no I didn't, I said you didn't try when I was mad. which is true, you don't, because you underestimate yourself and it's bullshit
That's not how I remember it but okay.
I'm sorry
Like seriously, when someone as hot as Billie Eilish gets body shamed for wearing a tank top it makes me that much less likely to take risks.
now I see why she covered up as a minor, that would have been a shit show
The issue with dressing the part is that it draws that more attention to myself, once people see someone dressing in femme aesthetics they immediately begin judging and objectifying them, while keeping to how I look keeps their fucking eyes off me. I get that this is something women have been dealing with for a while, and that aiming to be like "You can't treat trannies that way" serves to distance themselves from cis-women that much more, but it's hard to be stared at like I'm the uncanny valley, especially when their eyes make me imagine how I'd be looking at myself if I were a stranger.
At this point I clean myself up just to look in the mirror.
dress like a tomboy girl then, like get some fake boobs and some make-up and then just wear normal loose clothing
The issue with dressing the part is that it draws that more attention to myself, once people see someone dressing in femme aesthetics they immediately begin judging and objectifying them, while keeping to how I look keeps their fucking eyes off me. I get that this is something women have been dealing with for a while, and that aiming to be like "You can't treat trannies that way" serves to distance themselves from cis-women that much more, but it's hard to be stared at like I'm the uncanny valley, especially when their eyes make me imagine how I'd be looking at myself if I were a stranger.
At this point I clean myself up just to look in the mirror.dress like a tomboy girl then, like get some fake boobs and some make-up and then just wear normal loose clothing
This, this is objectification.
The issue with dressing the part is that it draws that more attention to myself, once people see someone dressing in femme aesthetics they immediately begin judging and objectifying them, while keeping to how I look keeps their fucking eyes off me. I get that this is something women have been dealing with for a while, and that aiming to be like "You can't treat trannies that way" serves to distance themselves from cis-women that much more, but it's hard to be stared at like I'm the uncanny valley, especially when their eyes make me imagine how I'd be looking at myself if I were a stranger.
At this point I clean myself up just to look in the mirror.dress like a tomboy girl then, like get some fake boobs and some make-up and then just wear normal loose clothing
This, this is objectification.
no it's passing as a girl, looking female isn't objectification. by loose I mean not hugging your form
You're literally telling me how to act and dress.
no I'm telling you what you could wear to look feminine if you wanted to. I didn't demand it, I suggested it. you yourself said you want to be more feminine but don't have the confidence.
which is ridiculous to not have confidence based on how you think you look you look fine
I never found Billie hot, but the extra meat is quick to increase those knockers.
? you meat muscle
I never found Billie hot, but the extra meat is quick to increase those knockers.
? you meat muscle
No. She's thicker, and she looks more attractive. Nice boobs.
