-has some compassion and is holding this quality in high regard, aspiring to have more
-knows life to be nothing but suffering but tries to push through anyway
-is reasonably intelligent but not unproportionately high that it comes off as arrogant or belittling
-has a greater, noble vision for his role in the world (not saying he lives up to it at all)
-has edgy sense of humor
-reasonably good looks, some features that men and women find aesthetically pleasing can be found. Not a supermodel, means achievements were hard earned and he cannot sail on good looks alone
-had a very bad childhood and had much shit to shovel away, still managed to be a contributing member of society (not saying he is completely unburnt)
-has many weaknesses and flaws, tries to accept or change them according to his abilities (e.g. by method of therapy or self work)
-tries not to hurt sentient beings, does not even kill mosquitos