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The strain usually comes from the need to feel appreciated, respected, heard, loved, and cherished. The other spouse may be dwindling on these responsibilities. The spouse starts to take the other for granted.

What if they no longer love each other? Why stay in a miserable marriage where you might grow to resent the person you once loved?

Divorce is fine 

Lenalee said: 

What if they no longer love each other? Why stay in a miserable marriage where you might grow to resent the person you once loved?

Divorce is fine 

God doesn't seem cool with it unless there was sexual immorality present within the marriage (and even then). To them it is 'Adultery' even post-Divorce over how that only covers the Laws of Man, not that of this supposed Loving Creator. 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

What if they no longer love each other? Why stay in a miserable marriage where you might grow to resent the person you once loved?

Divorce is fine 

God doesn't seem cool with it unless there was sexual immorality present within the marriage (and even then). To them it is 'Adultery' even post-Divorce over how that only covers the Laws of Man, not that of this supposed Loving Creator. 

 Lmao fuck god he's never been married.

Lenalee said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

What if they no longer love each other? Why stay in a miserable marriage where you might grow to resent the person you once loved?

Divorce is fine 

God doesn't seem cool with it unless there was sexual immorality present within the marriage (and even then). To them it is 'Adultery' even post-Divorce over how that only covers the Laws of Man, not that of this supposed Loving Creator. 

Lmao fuck god he's never been married.

I dunno, there seems to be some contention on the forum over if He has or hasn't. 😏

I think the point of relationship counselling is to try to make the relationship better when it's not good. Relationships usually have ups and downs. If you're at the bottom, then it's worth it to see if you can climb back up. If you always break up whenever you're a little unhappy, you will likely end up alone.

It's like if you have problems with your parents. It's probably worth it to try to fix it. If you've tried your best for a long time, and it didn't work, then you should give up.

Relationships aren't the way they are depicted in romantic comedies.

Feathers said: 

The strain usually comes from the need to feel appreciated, respected, heard, loved, and cherished. The other spouse may be dwindling on these responsibilities. The spouse starts to take the other for granted.

 It's possible to get over those desires ( not needs ) and when we do, it'll all come anyway. 

I will admit there’s one strange verse that caught my attention. God condemns polygamy/adultery (especially for Kings). But one time He addressed King David after he killed a man to take his wife. 

2 Samuel 12:8-9 And I gave you your master's house and your master's wives into your arms and gave you the house of Israel and of Judah. And if this were too little, I would add to you as much more. Why have you despised the word of the Lord, to do what is evil in his sight? You have struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and have taken his wife to be your wife and have killed him with the sword of the Ammonites.

God ain’t for that murder ~