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This Fall's been pretty intense this year. 

For good reason if what she's claiming is true

Lenalee said: 

For good reason if what she's claiming is true

Emphasis on 'if'. 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

For good reason if what she's claiming is true

Emphasis on 'if'. 

 Br himself implied to you it was multiple times and even admitted it at some points and you chose to be blind.

🌺plumeria🌺 said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lenalee said: 

For good reason if what she's claiming is true

Emphasis on 'if'. 

 Br himself implied to you it was multiple times and even admitted it at some points and you chose to be blind.

I don't recall him saying he fucked you in your sleep. 

For context: 

🌺plumeria🌺:
My husband keeps getting angry when I refuse sex, even though I have frequent sex with him despite his claims
I currently have a bad tooth that hurts half my face
All I wanted was to go to sleep so the pain would go away
Instead I had to deal with my husband keeping me up with his anger because I didn't want sex because I was in to much pain, even though I had just had sex with him that morning where I rode him most of the time and everything
And then when I finally did get to sleep he kept waking me up by trying to have sex with me while I was asleep
I was in so much pain in my mouth/face and I pushed him off me because I was tired and his elbow accidentally smacked me in the face
But then when I said (your elbow hit me in my bad tooth) he said (good)
Then he was still angry I didn't want sex
The next morning he was still mad
Even though he understands how much pain I am in because he had the same problem with his teeth in the past and he didn't want sex during that time either
There was finally a situation where I woke up and I was half asleep and I was in sleep paralysis while he was having sex with me in my sleep, and my face hurt so bad from the bad tooth, I couldn't push him off because my arms and legs wouldn't work
I explained to him numerous times I don't want sleep sex or sex where he yells at me until I give in
Especially when it's because I am in pain
But he kept doing it over and over, it's like he doesn't care
And this makes me cross with him in general
It's destroying our relationship and it's making my feelings for him die
I told him this and he still won't listen, he thinks I'll never leave

🌺plumeria🌺:
I just filed some divorce papers
But he says he won't be here for court
I won't report what he did though

> Prompt: You're going to divorce him?

🌺plumeria🌺:
Yes
It's going to take some time
Br keeps trying to take the phone out of my had
Hand
L8r

🌺plumeria🌺:
I have scoliosis and a partially displaced hip so even when I don't have problems with my teeth it causes me a lot of pain
In order for us to have sex I have to be in certain positions and move a certain way
Or else it causes me pain
So if I can't talk or move because I am paralyzed it is painful for me
He knows this
It has been this way here and there throughout the marriage but I thought maybe he just didn't understand
After last night, I knew he understood, because of my teeth
He himself has had the same issue with his teeth and he didn't want sex then either
So there is no way he didn't get it
When he had bad teeth I helped him, found him a dentist, made him broth in the slow cooker, ran the air-conditioning on him and brought him a spit bucket I would empty out, I picked up meds for him at the store and helped treat him
All he fucking does for my tooth is fuck me in my sleep

Pro-Tip:

Your spouse fucking you while you're asleep and after you've already said you don't want them to be fucking you in your sleep isn't a #justmarriedthings, that's called rape regardless of gender. Being married doesn't mean you stop asking for consent from your partner.

Lenalee said: 

Pro-Tip:

Your spouse fucking you while you're asleep and after you've already said you don't want them to be fucking you in your sleep isn't a #justmarriedthings, that's called rape regardless of gender. Being married doesn't mean you stop asking for consent from your partner.

Unless you're a Christian. 

Lenalee said: 

Pro-Tip:

Your spouse fucking you while you're asleep and after you've already said you don't want them to be fucking you in your sleep isn't a #justmarriedthings, that's called rape regardless of gender. Being married doesn't mean you stop asking for consent from your partner.

 I dont think she sad he fucked her while she was asleep. She did not say he forced her or forcefully entered. She said he kept trying. That is rude and probably something like sexual harrassment etc., but not rape in my book. I do think that intimacy in a relationship changes things a bit. Like, it is really bad if you slap some stranger woman's ass on the street, but if you do it in the kitchen to your husband or your wife, it is different. Even if you have not asked for consent before in both cases. Do you get what I mean? I also think rape is rape btw and that it can happen in marriages. But what I read did not mean br raped her. Just that he was annoying and a bad person.