There are guys I know who I find very good looking, and when we meet we smile at one another. Probably not easy to say no to them when it comes to certain things. One of them I'd say is a freak magnet for both genders. He was married for 2 minutes before his wife caught him cheating with her Mother. I saw him last in 2014 when I was departing Trinidad in the airport. ( We buried his Father same year we buried mine, so he was dropping someone off ). On that note he saw me in line getting searched and he came over to give me the arm hug and say see you later. Once again he was magnificent, everyone just stared at him and I felt special.
He is without a doubt one of the most attractive men in the world. Men and women giggle when he speaks. Let me put it this way, if he were around for every single time I ever met a woman, I'd still be a virgin.
On that, I still have no sexual desire toward this guy. If he sent me love notes I'd surely laugh at first and I really don't want that.
Maybe it's my programming, and I don't think it needs to be corrected, but it seems like female traits are required for me to be attracted to someone. Of course there are cross dressers but there is still something masculine about them. If not how they act it's how they look, or maybe just knowing what's under the hood is enough to deter me from hooking up with a trans. I do fancy the deep womanly voice as opposed to a high pitch female voice, but these days I get the high pitch one but cute voice is fine too.