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Date shit


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So. I met this girl 4 times. We said friends with benefits only. We r fucking since the first date. We Vibe, but I don't feel much. I had the feeling she fell in love with me on the first date (she came over and we drank 2 bottles of sparkly wine and I ate her pussy and fucked her). Should I make a cut and tell her again hey I feel like u have feelings for me and I just want to let you know that I don't have the capacity for this right now, I just broke up etc. Or should I keep my mouth shut because she is an adult and we agreed in the beginning that it would be friends with benefits?

Me I don't want to hurt her and I don't really want the conflict or have to find something else and maybe I could even fall in love after some time or so..right now it is nice to have something to do in the evenings... We click and I don't have many friends etc. We can talk about stuff and it is a better time passing than being home alone. But I have a bad feeling because I think she is suffering because she loves me. 

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Wait a while at least.

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It "sounds like" you've gotten yourself a good thing Friedrich, though I wouldn't know at this point. You don't want her for anything else, and that's reasonable, you barely know one another.

Better to let it drag on and learn more instead of confronting her on what you think. Telling her you don't feel the same will be off putting regardless if she really does like you that way or not. Interestingly enough you don't seem to want to ruin whatever it is you have with her either.

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