Sex really isn't that good. Sex is so wonderful and fullfilling etc - that's what people that can't get laid think. If you have sex regularly it is just normal, like eating. If I eat a steak, it kind of tastes good, but after 2 hours it could have been a McDonalds Cheeseburger for all I care and remember. It is not lasting happiness and even in the moment it is not something extraordinarily great even. Realizing that is part of the years from age 25-30.
Sex really isn't that good. Sex is so wonderful and fullfilling etc - that's what people that can't get laid think. If you have sex regularly it is just normal, like eating. If I eat a steak, it kind of tastes good, but after 2 hours it could have been a McDonalds Cheeseburger for all I care and remember. It is not lasting happiness and even in the moment it is not something extraordinarily great even. Realizing that is part of the years from age 25-30.
have u been grapefruited?
It depends on your emotional capacity and who you are doing it with. Sex can feel like masturbating with someone else's body or a spiritual experience where you feel like your soul has been "repaired" depending on the bond and understanding of each others desires. It's greatly affected by your capacity for vulnerability also
As time passes, we eventually have our fill when it comes to that, but of course we'll still do it anyway. Nature has gone too far when it comes to pain, the same can be said about the sexual urges of our youth. I can only speak from a male perspective, but from the time a guy starts hitting puberty, the hormones become ultra excited and sex is the #1 goal.
Early 20's it's still pretty intense for a guy. By 26-30 a man has more of a handle on his libido, with that if you had a lot of sex in your late teens with a high chemistry partner, then , that's most likely the best sex you'll ever have.
Sex is like a drug, or rather it releases natural drugs/chemicals into our brain like dopamine and 5-hydroxytryptamine. This can be released from the time we know we're about to have have sex for yet another fond and forgotten memory, unless the session stood out.
Too much sex will eventually lead to depleted chemical levels, though it may still be enjoyable it won't be as good. Strangely enough porn stars really like having sex and I mean they are sex maniacs and some of them keep doing it for decades on and off camera. We do get a bit of a dopamine rush when we score a nice payday too, so for the porn star sex is more than 1 reason to have a dopamine rush.
Passing up on sex becomes easy. Sometimes. If we have unfinished business with a past or current fling the temptation tends to be greater. If you're in a relationship and the sex isn't good, it won't work out, and if you're in a relationship and you have a lot of sex and enjoy it, then great.
If nothing matters, at least we have the smoke and mirrors to occupy us in the physical. If we're too attached to the passions of youth then we'll simply get old and snuffed out and be miserable for the end of our days. There are consequences to sex addiction so when the passion starts to fizzle away, don't chase after it.
Sex is like mind-melding, I don't relate to the experience being so disconnected.
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Sex is like mind-melding, I don't relate to the experience being so disconnected.
Mind-melding?
Sex is like mind-melding, I don't relate to the experience being so disconnected.
Mind-melding?
You've never watched Star Trek? It's basically tactile mind reading.
Sex is like mind-melding, I don't relate to the experience being so disconnected.
Mind-melding?
You've never watched Star Trek? It's basically tactile mind reading.
Honestly I don't want others to read my mind. I think it's better to have privacy when it comes to your own mind. Private thoughts can be overwhelming especially if you hide your true nature from everyone around you and honestly I think it would ruin the relationship if someone can peer into your thoughts like that.