Message Turncoat in a DM to get moderator attention

Users Online(? lurkers):
10 / 24 posts
Posts: 34785
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

I never said "lose" I said weakened.

I see the two as related I guess, as weakening's like a milling-down form of loss. 

If there's 'nothing to lose', they can't be weakened further, while someone with something to lose always stands to be weakened. 

Your entire personality and majority of your schemes/tactics consist of being passive, submissive, and playing along.

There's elements of provocation in it though, but for a lot of it it's about how I want to hear their story. I don't really play along with them any further than attempting to invite more conversation, as past a certain point 'playing along' can become straight up lying. 

Sometimes people take pushing to divulge more of the story, to act on the things they really want to do. It's not entirely passive and submissive if a part of the narrative keeps involving the other person feeling pushed, but when it comes to pain tolerance I've learned that sometimes outlasting whatever they're trying to do is how to move to the next stage (and that pushing can be fun). 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
last edit on 8/18/2021 10:08:38 PM
Posts: 1923
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

Even if it is provocation or rather passive aggressive provocation, it's fake control.

Maybe you feel like you provoke but what if the other person is using you to boost their ego or you reaffirm them by orbiting them like that? You're not in the dominating position.

Which is my point.

Posts: 3965
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

I never said "lose" I said weakened.

Your entire personality and majority of your schemes/tactics consist of being passive, submissive, and playing along.

If I was an armchair psychiatrist I would call you DPD.

 

Mind you DPD's are the most manipulative bunch in all three clusters.

But is being manipulative a compliment? Or admittance that you can't conquer hence you need to "play along"?

 

I think you fail to distinct the two due to your genetics/trauma. But I hate getting personal.

 lmao wtf r u talking about

Posts: 5484
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

You can do it sweetie. Perk up those pecs, hit the mental gym. 

Posts: 1923
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

People don't understand that manipulation in its purest form strikes the narcissism of a person.

Which is part of everyone, NPD's or superiority/inferiority complexes simply have more of it.

That stands true for normies too.

If you trigger their ego/insecurities/delusions, you're immediately villainized, I personally caused many meltdowns cause I was honest in real life after conversations with normies.

Political/ideological opinions are like knives to them, and it's even worse if you call them out for their insecurities and the reasons why they got these opinions.

DPD's on the other hand..

Codependents are willing to adopt the most "fitting" position/personality to latch on someone, I saw it happening many, many, times.

They adopt the most reaffirming/validating/submissive persona to fit in like a puzzle your personality, then they depend on all your decisions.

By giving you that much control they're actually in control as well, due to how the control you're given is part of their needs, necessities, and so on and so on.

 

 

 

Posts: 819
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

People don't understand that manipulation in its purest form strikes the narcissism of a person.

Which is part of everyone, NPD's or superiority/inferiority complexes simply have more of it.

That stands true for normies too.

If you trigger their ego/insecurities/delusions, you're immediately villainized, I personally caused many meltdowns cause I was honest in real life after conversations with normies.

Political/ideological opinions are like knives to them, and it's even worse if you call them out for their insecurities and the reasons why they got these opinions.

DPD's on the other hand..

Codependents are willing to adopt the most "fitting" position/personality to latch on someone, I saw it happening many, many, times.

They adopt the most reaffirming/validating/submissive persona to fit in like a puzzle your personality, then they depend on all your decisions.

By giving you that much control they're actually in control as well, due to how the control you're given is part of their needs, necessities, and so on and so on.

 

 

 

 You are a very insecure little child inside.

Posts: 1923
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

The sad little freak is ducking me in the chat cause it gets bullied and spergs like an autist in my threads lmao.

I literally own you at this point, I bet you were seething enviously when you read how girls orbit me irl while they ignore you.

Posts: 34785
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

Even if it is provocation or rather passive aggressive provocation, it's fake control.

Maybe you feel like you provoke but what if the other person is using you to boost their ego or you reaffirm them by orbiting them like that? 

Then cool, we both feel good about ourselves and are getting something out of it. What's the problem? 

 
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
Posts: 34785
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

People don't understand that manipulation in its purest form strikes the narcissism of a person.

I figured it went at their patterns in general, not just their ego needs. People's senses of personal responsibility for example can usually be poked at to push about desired outcomes. 

If you trigger their ego/insecurities/delusions, you're immediately villainized, I personally caused many meltdowns cause I was honest in real life after conversations with normies.

Depends on how it's triggered and at who imo. Some people like a straight shooter when it comes to communication, finding themselves with a bad taste in their mouths instead over those that add so many complications to it. 

If anything, I've seen the idea of people being so delicate as more of a worry from those who project that the world's as fragile as themselves, especially if they've been stuck in polite living for far too long. Some have the ego fortitude to wonder 'why do they think that about me?' as enough of a curiosity to keep a conversation going. 

Political/ideological opinions are like knives to them, and it's even worse if you call them out for their insecurities and the reasons why they got these opinions.

It is why quite a few people share a 'no political talk' rule these days. 

Codependents are willing to adopt the most "fitting" position/personality to latch on someone, I saw it happening many, many, times.

This is how you see me, overtly accommodating? 

I don't think others share that opinion with you, they probably tend to see me as pushy and annoying or whatever. 

They adopt the most reaffirming/validating/submissive persona to fit in like a puzzle your personality, then they depend on all your decisions.

By giving you that much control they're actually in control as well, due to how the control you're given is part of their needs, necessities, and so on and so on.

The secret to the dependent is that they aren't looking for control so much as a sense of security for self-control, but if anything the manipulation they tend to be capable of is over a large series of potential strategies ranging from self-pity to straight up puppet mastering, all for the simple goal of not being alone again. People in general have their own hang ups about feeling lonely and junk, but it's those who have worse afflictions that tend to see and maneuver it's lesser expressions in others. 

Ignoring sunken costs attachments, I tend to prefer challenging who I'm with from figuring there's more people out there to replace them if it doesn't go well. While I do feel like I need the company of others to feel that much better, most people tend to want the company of others and there's literally billions of us out there where that need can be used. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
Posts: 1923
0 votes RE: My super masterplan to counter maneaters NPD mommies.

This is how you see me, overtly accommodating?

 

 

Yes.

Everything about you, even your political stance, you can tell a lot about a person from his political stance and how he reacts to others.

You bend yourself a lot, as a male, as a personality, and as an individual. You even admitted that you live off wellfare cause you manipulate the government and you get paid without doing anything.

And I hate being the seething bitter fuck here that brings personal facts but. According to natasha your NPD mommy abused you and disrespected you a lot. And you still defended her.

Now mind you natasha is an exaggerating BPD feministic lolcow so her claims can't be taken at face value, but if there's smoke there's fire.

And your personality is textbook masochism/self blaming/ overly tolerant, so it would make sense if you did.

 

Due to how you're rationally asking me about my views without seething I will give you an advice just like you gave me many times.

Try to adopt pride and some big big ego.

You will see that sociopath community/ crow/ natasha/ aizen/ bpd jim/ chapo/ bohemian cuckery blahblah are extremely expendable.

Trust me.

10 / 24 posts
This site contains NSFW material. To view and use this site, you must be 18+ years of age.