Okay but the problem with a strap on is that one person still isn’t getting any fucking pleasure from sex. Lesbianism is fucking retarded. Yeah.
There's strap-ons with a dildo or clit tickler on the other side, otherwise the harness itself does a lot of clit contact.
A lot of sex is mental, too. I've seen the one pegging get off to it before the one being pegged.
This is obscene, it may be possible that the moderate clit contact really does get the penetrator off 1st, but obviously they are designed to give most of the pleasure to the receiving individual. They’re just doing what they can with them which isn’t enough to properly get off. Nobody wants to be wearing a strap on and fucking someone for an hour. I refuse to believe it.
There's lesbian bars and clubs all about this shit, and if you want to look further the kink community is another story entirely.
There's also women who can't achieve orgasm from penetration at all.
Lmfao. “I can’t cum from penetration” pls only touch my clit until I orgasm. Can’t even imagine.
The clit is amazing dude, and a lot of women don't have enough experience with their own sexuality to know how to click their minds into the comfort zone they need to cum from penetration, leading to it being seeming painful until they find it (definitely an issue with religious upbringing types who are told not to pleasure themselves). The clit's a super sensitive area that puts cock tip sensitivity to shame, to shame, and I've seen it as an easier way to get those types off when the strain of being fucked can otherwise be super distracting for those where this applies.
Seriously, master the clit and you'll be more people's best friend. It's also possible to get some girls off through the nipples if they're sensitive enough, especially if paired with clit attention. If they're super worked up it becomes easier and easier to accomplish these things without penetration even being a thing at all.
Fingering is also an art, and depending on where their G-Spot is some can end up liking it better than sex. Every woman is different, and learning what works for them makes things better for both people.
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