Some people just really own themselves. I am fairly confident myself etc and can do everything. I can stand up for myself etc. But of course I have insecurities etc. I was having dinner in a nice restaurant with some people and on the table next to us there was one dude maybe 45 years old. He was there havind a date with a Trans girl. She had maybe a 7/10 passing, but still you could see.. She also had a deep voice. This guy seemed so confident and unbothered etc. I thought if I was him and liked that stuff I would never do it in public. Like ok, you bang traps etx for Fetisch and you go home to your wife etc. But to actually date one in public seems so alpha to me. I admire the balls and I would like to have this quality and this sense of self confidence myself. Any input?
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Do you think maybe your own impression of trans people influenced how daring you thought that person was?
"That guy has guts, I could never get myself to do that." Well maybe he went through all the insecurity bullshit already.
It is definitely courageous but I see little difference with other acts that could incur social judgment. Like how obese people can be scared to take off their shirt. Same process, different gradation.
Are people really worried about how they appear when dating a trans guy?
You people are... strange. I always thought people only pretended to care about social rules. For me, it's like they don't exist. That's why I fart in public all the time. I don't even try to control it.
Buttered Toast: (Lolling at a German dude's English grammar)
Some people just really own themselves. I am fairly confident myself etc and can do everything. I can stand up for myself etc. But of course I have insecurities etc. I was having dinner in a nice restaurant with some people and on the table next to us there was one dude maybe 45 years old. He was there havind a date with a Trans girl. She had maybe a 7/10 passing, but still you could see.. She also had a deep voice. This guy seemed so confident and unbothered etc. I thought if I was him and liked that stuff I would never do it in public. Like ok, you bang traps etx for Fetisch and you go home to your wife etc. But to actually date one in public seems so alpha to me. I admire the balls and I would like to have this quality and this sense of self confidence myself. Any input?
This is how I can tell ur not with reality.
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