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Is there a realistic good reason why men should like older women?


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Since dawn of times man has been looking for the most fertile ( post menstruation ) and young woman capable of bearing child since they would often be healthier and more resistant than an older woman

So, nowadays, we have this mostly Feminist trend that tries to persuade men, specially the ones on their late 20's, 30's and even 40's that seeking girls around their 18's and earlier 20's is wrong, because they are not '' mentally '' mature.

That doesn't seem like a good argument. You can marry a woman that has a 15 years old gap for example, and it will mostly come down to her personality when it comes down to cheating and such, plus, the less partners makes her naturally less machiavellian like towards a relationship.

 

Your sincerely opinion as a woman, why you think you are more worth than a 18 years old woman on her prime?

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There are none, most women in their late 20s and 30s and beyond know that their sexual market value is dropping so they try to use tactics like shaming and guilt into making men date them as true desire is not there to compel them anymore. 

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There are none, most women in their late 20s and 30s and beyond know that their sexual market value is dropping so they try to use tactics like shaming and guilt into making men date them as true desire is not there to compel them anymore. 

 I actually agree. They should have been open to commitment when they were younger, sacrifice some time of being young and single, even though it's fun, so you can live your life settled with one man and happy. You can't have your cake and eat it to- i am sure there are men who want these women, but I'm sure it is more difficult. However- shaming, and guilting- that isn't the way to go about things. 

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I do however think down here in the US men do have a harder time finding women and are more open to older women because an older woman is better than nothing. Also an older woman may have more money and financial assets and be more ready to settle than a younger one and also know a few more tricks in bed. Many men in the US and single and looking for older women but older women should be open to these flaws and date on there level- but sadly most older women think they are "the shit" and expect to much on the dating scene so they resort to guilting men who are not on there level. It doesn't work. And if you are an older woman with children- find a single man with children himself, who is looking for a mom for them- but no most women are spoiled and even that isn't good enough for em cus they want their kids to be the center of attention, so they look for the unrealistic Mr.perfect instead.

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0 votes RE: Is there a realistic good reason why men should like older women?

There are none, most women in their late 20s and 30s and beyond know that their sexual market value is dropping so they try to use tactics like shaming and guilt into making men date them as true desire is not there to compel them anymore. 

 I actually agree. They should have been open to commitment when they were younger, sacrifice some time of being young and single, even though it's fun, so you can live your life settled with one man and happy. You can't have your cake and eat it to- i am sure there are men who want these women, but I'm sure it is more difficult. However- shaming, and guilting- that isn't the way to go about things. 

 Some of us can’t just settle for anyone like your husband did. 

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I do however think down here in the US men do have a harder time finding women and are more open to older women because an older woman is better than nothing. Also an older woman may have more money and financial assets and be more ready to settle than a younger one and also know a few more tricks in bed. Many men in the US and single and looking for older women but older women should be open to these flaws and date on there level- but sadly most older women think they are "the shit" and expect to much on the dating scene so they resort to guilting men who are not on there level. It doesn't work. And if you are an older woman with children- find a single man with children himself, who is looking for a mom for them- but no most women are spoiled and even that isn't good enough for em cus they want their kids to be the center of attention, so they look for the unrealistic Mr.perfect instead.

 Bro, I get enough interest from guys to where I can choose who I want to be with. I want to get married to a good person, not any ugly dude from the street, or even a random cute guy from the street. My body is still top notch, so I still have options. I also have money, so I can always buy a guy.

Guys are a dime a dozen man. They just want sex and money and I have both. I may not be young, or dumb, but I have a nice brain and amazing genes. It’s all about reproducing. If a guy wants a kid, he looks for the wide hips, tiny waste and big boobs. That’s me, and that’s a rare body type.

The only issue I have is that I’m always around a guy, so they think I’m taken, and I’m too shy in person, so when they say the father is one lucky guy because he has two beautiful women in his life, I can’t tell them I’m actually single because I’m not comfortable with being a single mom yet. It’s not bad being old if you look good and are willing to wait for the right guy.

I’m not trying to be miserable for the rest of my life because I settled. I rather be single forever. It’s not bad. I still get sex. I still have money, I still have a guy or as many dudes as I want around. I still get to do whatever I want and not care about feelings.

Just because you’re married, doesn’t mean you have to look down on those of us who aren’t and pretend we didn’t want to get married in our youth, just because we aren’t married now. 

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0 votes RE: Is there a realistic good reason why men should like older women?

I do however think down here in the US men do have a harder time finding women and are more open to older women because an older woman is better than nothing. Also an older woman may have more money and financial assets and be more ready to settle than a younger one and also know a few more tricks in bed. Many men in the US and single and looking for older women but older women should be open to these flaws and date on there level- but sadly most older women think they are "the shit" and expect to much on the dating scene so they resort to guilting men who are not on there level. It doesn't work. And if you are an older woman with children- find a single man with children himself, who is looking for a mom for them- but no most women are spoiled and even that isn't good enough for em cus they want their kids to be the center of attention, so they look for the unrealistic Mr.perfect instead.

 I will never take care of some dudes kid, unless it’s mine too. I’m not a mom because I like children in general. I’m a mom because I want to pass on my genes. They are amazing. The baby got sick, then she got Trypt sick, and I was totally fine. Not even a runny nose. No sickness at all.

My genes are the best. Hourglass figure, not fat after having a baby. Didn’t get fat when I had the baby in my tummy. Have the best and softest skin without even trying. Literal genius runs in my family, I have a great job because I’m smart, I have money because I’m smart, and I get to live with a guy that I love, because I’m dumb.

That’s the complicated part. It’s really dumb of me to be in this situation, but I can’t help but want to live with him even though he doesn’t like me. The sex alone is worth the money I’ve wasted on food, alcohol, and a few packs of cigarettes.

Makes me feel guilty though because my future husband will not get my previously perfect girl thing :) I may never get married. I don’t know why I’m kidding with this fantasy anymore. 

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realistic reason no, nature -wise the younger women are better for reproduction/ raising kids/ less mentally ill - bitter / used etc etc

naturally so we all got an expiration date and women's expiration date is about 24-32 (max)

 

then again what do you consider realistic reason? cause i could invent you 100 realistic reasons to like a npd mommy

 

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