I do however think down here in the US men do have a harder time finding women and are more open to older women because an older woman is better than nothing. Also an older woman may have more money and financial assets and be more ready to settle than a younger one and also know a few more tricks in bed. Many men in the US and single and looking for older women but older women should be open to these flaws and date on there level- but sadly most older women think they are "the shit" and expect to much on the dating scene so they resort to guilting men who are not on there level. It doesn't work. And if you are an older woman with children- find a single man with children himself, who is looking for a mom for them- but no most women are spoiled and even that isn't good enough for em cus they want their kids to be the center of attention, so they look for the unrealistic Mr.perfect instead.
Bro, I get enough interest from guys to where I can choose who I want to be with. I want to get married to a good person, not any ugly dude from the street, or even a random cute guy from the street. My body is still top notch, so I still have options. I also have money, so I can always buy a guy.
Guys are a dime a dozen man. They just want sex and money and I have both. I may not be young, or dumb, but I have a nice brain and amazing genes. It’s all about reproducing. If a guy wants a kid, he looks for the wide hips, tiny waste and big boobs. That’s me, and that’s a rare body type.
The only issue I have is that I’m always around a guy, so they think I’m taken, and I’m too shy in person, so when they say the father is one lucky guy because he has two beautiful women in his life, I can’t tell them I’m actually single because I’m not comfortable with being a single mom yet. It’s not bad being old if you look good and are willing to wait for the right guy.
I’m not trying to be miserable for the rest of my life because I settled. I rather be single forever. It’s not bad. I still get sex. I still have money, I still have a guy or as many dudes as I want around. I still get to do whatever I want and not care about feelings.
Just because you’re married, doesn’t mean you have to look down on those of us who aren’t and pretend we didn’t want to get married in our youth, just because we aren’t married now.