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the best way to get over is to attempt suicide with xanax and vodka then deny it years later 2 not lose e-rep

AizenTheTitanic said: 

so let's assume you're super obsessed with someone, he/she is the one, he/she is special,

nobody get you like that

That's the problem portion. Just because you choose to open up to someone doesn't mean there won't potentially be others down the line. Every time that we try with someone again we give ourselves the chance to go into it with the lessons from the last one. None of it's wasted time, and even after a relationship's ended you have the room to appreciate what you gained from each of them as isolated experiences. 

It's all growth, and until the pain that follows it's the moments that allow us to be happier than without the costs. Without my exes I wouldn't be where I am now, their exchanges with me important when it came to seeing who I was with them. 

relation ships of any type, in the end are some sort of compromise

even connections

develop an ego-pride that has no need to compromise shit, you have no need for others or relation ships

now let's say that this sound too NPD to you and it doesn't work cause, in the end you're just another human and not a rampant god complex/ superiority complex/ or whatever who gives a fuck

you gotta turn cynical and cold, not as a cope but actually cynical and cold

and accept that your life permanently lost a very intense color from its canvas, boom, it's over

sounds grim af and unhealthy but eventually you get used to it

Sounds more like denial, the classic "I have no feels" cope. 

It's absurd how much people are afraid to let themselves feel. 

nah it's not the "I am emotionless" cope you don't get it

i said cynical and cold, i didn't say emotionless, that's impossible

is more like rejecting ONE specific emotion and replacing it with another, than being "emotionless"

if it is what you say then it doesn't work, it leads up to wannabe stoic explosions and you grovel even harder than before

also becoming cynical+cold could also be classified as "growth" 

extremely cold and strategic

 okay BT stop alting now you can seethe with your main too

AizenTheTitanic said: 

so let's assume you're super obsessed with someone, he/she is the one, he/she is special, nobody get you like that

maybe you're a narc or egoist and you felt the most challenged by the said person

maybe you invested some vulnerability only once and that was on the said person, whatever

maybe it was obsession, attachment, actual love

doesn't matter this guide worked for me, it won't work for you, but it might work for you if you become like me:

relation ships of any type, in the end are some sort of compromise

even connections

develop an ego-pride that has no need to compromise shit, you have no need for others or relation ships

 

now let's say that this sound too NPD to you and it doesn't work cause, in the end you're just another human and not a rampant god complex/ superiority complex/ or whatever who gives a fuck

 

you gotta turn cynical and cold, not as a cope but actually cynical and cold

and accept that your life permanently lost a very intense color from its canvas, boom, it's over

 

sounds grim af and unhealthy but eventually you get used to it

 

 I used to be like this, but with the realization that I’ma chick, so I need a dude to survive. The way it manifested in me was that it could be any guy. I didn’t need any particular dude, just a dude. Now, I’m stuck on Trypt, even though he doesn’t like me. He made me feel some amazing things and it’s hard to get over that when you used to be detached and not connect with anyone. I think I’m getting back to that though because I know I have to replace him in a year, so I’m working towards that goal mentally. 

I’d provide different advice for getting over someone though. I’d say distance yourself slowly and they will either help you distance yourself from them, without knowing that’s what you are trying to do, or they will try and get closer. If they try to get close to you, why are you trying to get over them? Just enjoy the love. If they distance themselves too, they don’t like you and it will make you not like them, if you respect yourself even a little bit. 

aka you broke down to your nigger-ape level and made the <<pragmatic>> realization that you need a man to survive

good for you for not being delusional, and?

AizenTheTitanic said: 

aka you broke down to your nigger-ape level and made the <<pragmatic>> realization that you need a man to survive

good for you for not being delusional, and?

 And I’m looking. I shall find him soon. I can feel it. God has my back.