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Tryptamine said: 

boastful displays are often a sign of insecurity

in other news, sugar tastes sweet

 boastful displays sure, but where do you draw the line between boastful/ accurate/ and assertive? the opinions of others? objectivity? or your self view?

for example if i say "i am a fucking 6.2 chad" and it's the truth, does that make me insecure?

it's depended on the delivery the way i see it, for example

if you say "i am the best because of this- and provide an actual reason it may be arrogance or ego

but if you say

"i am the best cuz compare to that guy a/b/c/ or them/her/ whatever, and you add the comparison part in it, is insecurity  (like UCM does)

now mind you,  i personally believe that confidence doesn't have to be silent

i am open to refutes tho

AizenTheTitanic said: 

Tryptamine said: 

boastful displays are often a sign of insecurity

in other news, sugar tastes sweet

 boastful displays sure, but where do you draw the line between boastful/ accurate/ and assertive? the opinions of others? objectivity? or your self view?

for example if i say "i am a fucking 6.2 chad" and it's the truth, does that make me insecure?

 

it's depended on the delivery the way i see it, for example

if you say "i am the best because of this- and provide an actual reason it may be arrogance or ego

but if you say

"i am the best cuz compare to that guy a/b/c/ or them/her/ whatever, and you add the comparison part in it, is insecurity  (like UCM does)

now mind you,  i personally believe that confidence doesn't have to be silent

i am open to refutes tho

yeah, it has a lot to do with delivery. i originally meant to say "self-aggrandizing," not "boastful." but i was buzzed, so i wrote "self-effacing" at first and changed it.

people who self-aggrandize a lot ("promoting oneself as being powerful or important") are usually doing so out of a need to be seen that way. people can even do this with "humility" as well. think of people who are always talking about how they do x, y, and z for others, how they are no better than anyone else (just really nice)...broadcasting "hey, look! i'm super humble and cool!" it's a tendency to pepper the narrative with things designed to manipulate you into having the opinion they want others to have of them.

pride itself is fine, and no one wants a friend who gets all weird and defensive when you occasionally bring up something cool you did (unless you like punishing that person or something). just like anything else social, there's a when and a way for everything, and that varies by the vibe of the tribe.

while this seems like it can be a slippery slope of what is being proud and what is taking things too far, i don't think it is. most people at their core find it annoying when someone in the social orbit is trying to project themselves as inherently better than the group. people with healthy emotional development understand they are a mix of good and bad qualities, and that status is a hierarchical thing relative to different in-groups based on different qualities. therefor they are conscious of not needlessly inflaming the emotions of others just to score some ego points in that in-group.

that's the gist of it. there are exceptions where self-aggrandizing can be good, for example narcs steal girls sometimes by talking themselves up and putting others down at the same time. but that's a weird exception, and if you lose your girl to a narc, you're probably better off without that girl.

Tryptamine said: 

AizenTheTitanic said: 

Tryptamine said: 

boastful displays are often a sign of insecurity

in other news, sugar tastes sweet

 boastful displays sure, but where do you draw the line between boastful/ accurate/ and assertive? the opinions of others? objectivity? or your self view?

for example if i say "i am a fucking 6.2 chad" and it's the truth, does that make me insecure?

 

it's depended on the delivery the way i see it, for example

if you say "i am the best because of this- and provide an actual reason it may be arrogance or ego

but if you say

"i am the best cuz compare to that guy a/b/c/ or them/her/ whatever, and you add the comparison part in it, is insecurity  (like UCM does)

now mind you,  i personally believe that confidence doesn't have to be silent

i am open to refutes tho

yeah, it has a lot to do with delivery. i originally meant to say "self-aggrandizing," not "boastful." but i was buzzed, so i wrote "self-effacing" at first and changed it.

people who self-aggrandize a lot ("promoting oneself as being powerful or important") are usually doing so out of a need to be seen that way. people can even do this with "humility" as well. think of people who are always talking about how they do x, y, and z for others, how they are no better than anyone else (just really nice)...broadcasting "hey, look! i'm super humble and cool!" it's a tendency to pepper the narrative with things designed to manipulate you into having the opinion they want others to have of them.

pride itself is fine, and no one wants a friend who gets all weird and defensive when you occasionally bring up something cool you did (unless you like punishing that person or something). just like anything else social, there's a when and a way for everything, and that varies by the vibe of the tribe.

while this seems like it can be a slippery slope of what is being proud and what is taking things too far, i don't think it is. most people at their core find it annoying when someone in the social orbit is trying to project themselves as inherently better than the group. people with healthy emotional development understand they are a mix of good and bad qualities, and that status is a hierarchical thing relative to different in-groups based on different qualities. therefor they are conscious of not needlessly inflaming the emotions of others just to score some ego points in that in-group.

that's the gist of it. there are exceptions where self-aggrandizing can be good, for example narcs steal girls sometimes by talking themselves up and putting others down at the same time. but that's a weird exception, and if you lose your girl to a narc, you're probably better off without that girl.

Umm, sweaty? I just spent three hours combing through all of your Reddit comments from the past two years, and oof, that's a yikes from me. I literally can't even right now. Oh you sweet summer child, you do realise you're making me lose all faith in humanity? I'm literally shaking rn. Let's unpack this. It's almost as if maybe, just maybe your toxic problematic behaviour towards poc is because someone hurt you. Just shut up and listen. It's called being a decent human being, and as a white person, YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE.

Let that sink in.

AizenTheTitanic said: 

Outro said: 

AizenTheTitanic said: 

people who refer to themselves as "gods" are vulnerable narcissists, and one of the most common things of npd's to say is "i am a god", it's a cover up for their fears + insecurities the appeal to the highest form of power they can envision

having a massive ego doesn't equal to NPD, if anything NPD's can't afford a massive ego hence why they are npd's

npd's are rarely prideful, in most insistencies they are delusional and shameless 

aspd's aren't the cold bad ass people you presume them to be, no where in the diagnosis or DSM it says that aspd's are emotionless/ apathetic/ or anything of the sort, it only says that they lack moralism/ and self control  

complete indifference towards the perspective/ views of others is either schizoid or autism, a big part of accomplishments in a human society requires to care a lot about what the majority thinks, manipulate it, or even alter it as you will

the majority of history's conquerors were in fact empathetic and sentimental af, including genkghis khan, the sentimentalism and the drive towards a cause is what lead them towards being brutal

being sensitive/ clingy/ emotional doesn't equal being empathetic, these are just deficiencies, many covert narcissists or borderlines confuse their overreactions with empathy, that's not the case

affective empathy is almost impossible to prove cause humans can fake anything, including kindness

women are genetically impaired, stop debating them you look pathetic, you would had better chances to make sense with a monkey (literally)

niggers are subhumans

trannies are subhumans

faggots and dykes are subhumans too

and generally everything that doesn't contribute to the expansion of your dna/race and survival is a mental impairment, including race mixing, pedophilia, and homosexuality

 

cry about it

This is kind of a confusing spiel from someone who frequently refers to himself as both a God and a Cluster B Silverback..

Was this intended as a comment on yourself in any way, or was that inadvertent?

 never called myself god in my life, just titanic, and the titanic part isn't based on superiority but merit

the cluster b silverback is a joke, a meme, fix your autism faggot

 I take this to mean that the self commentary was inadvertent.

holy shit i am not reading all that 

AizenTheTitanic said: 

holy shit i am not reading all that 

On another note, I appreciate how many of your posts are becoming longer. 

trannycoat recovered from the bullying by getting a life for 5 days (or so it claims) now it's back to bandwagon the biggest losers once more

round 2 (he will get battered again)

AizenTheTitanic said: 

trannycoat recovered from the bullying by getting a life for 5 days (or so it claims) now it's back to bandwagon the biggest losers once more

You counted how long I was gone?