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Today I got friendzoned


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At first anxiety and a feeling of falling in my ches6tst (that's how anxiety for me feels), but then I thought that doesn't mean that no one wants to fuck me and I Already fucked a lot so this does not mean I am inherently bad. Over the day the feeling came back a couple of times and I resolved it in the same way. Now it does not hurt anymore. 

 

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Context: it was via whatsapp after a first date. We went on a stroll in a park and talked for 2 hours. What a bitch LOL

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I ghost females upon sensing that the friendzone is approaching or they lost interest. It feels like giving away my attention support etc for free and being exploited. I don't even want sex bad enough to pursue a woman for longer than a little bit.

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last edit on 4/9/2021 7:23:43 PM
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I ghost females upon sensing that the friendzone is approaching or they lost interest. It feels like giving away my attention support etc for free and being exploited. I don't even want sex bad enough to pursue a woman for longer than a little bit.

Have you ever tried just being in the friendzone to see where it goes? 

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When you get friendzoned, she doesn't want to hear about you dating others, but she'll always tell you about "the other guys" without ever introducing you to them.

You're simply not their first choice but they'll keep you posted, and they'll look forward to you supporting them emotionally.

When someone in our circle is interested in us, we just know, but you should tell them anyway. Yeah the friendship will probably get destroyed, but that's kinda what you wanted.

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When you get friendzoned, she doesn't want to hear about you dating others

Weird, I never had a problem with this. 🤷

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When you get friendzoned, she doesn't want to hear about you dating others

Weird, I never had a problem with this. 🤷

 I'm not sure what you're on about. 

Like is it a problem if your friendzone friend doesn't want to hear about your other dates ?

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When you get friendzoned, she doesn't want to hear about you dating others

Weird, I never had a problem with this. 🤷

I'm not sure what you're on about. 

Like is it a problem if your friendzone friend doesn't want to hear about your other dates ?

I'm saying that it hasn't been an issue for me, that I've otherwise had no problem discussing my life in those areas as well as other ones with them, be they ex, friendzone, or otherwise, by being open to them talking about their own. 

I don't get how people feel like they can't. If you establish that it's an open rapport from the beginning, it becomes easier for both people to discuss their romantic interests with eachother, like any other 'type' of friend. Once they have, it opens up the room to tangent onto your own life in relation to theirs and opens up the room for reciprocity, for social bartering and the room to bond through that exchange. 

I'd only see this as an issue if you selfishly didn't have the patience to listen to their situation. 

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When you get friendzoned, she doesn't want to hear about you dating others

Weird, I never had a problem with this. 🤷

I'm not sure what you're on about. 

Like is it a problem if your friendzone friend doesn't want to hear about your other dates ?

I'm saying that it hasn't been an issue for me, that I've otherwise had no problem discussing my life in those areas as well as other ones with them, be they ex, friendzone, or otherwise, by being open to them talking about their own. 

I don't get how people feel like they can't. If you establish that it's an open rapport from the beginning, it becomes easier for both people to discuss their romantic interests with eachother, like any other 'type' of friend. Once they have, it opens up the room to tangent onto your own life in relation to theirs and opens up the room for reciprocity, for social bartering and the room to bond through that exchange. 

I'd only see this as an issue if you selfishly didn't have the patience to listen to their situation. 

 He means that they get mad he won't give them a ride to meet Tyrone and Chad anymore, and start doing it for another girl.

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Ohhh. I didn't think people really thought I am going to try and be friends. I don't think that is what was meant. It just means I don't want to fuck you and bye. 

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