Xadem: deceitful alcoholic*
Xadem has no intention of taking care of Scarlett. He has been with her on for over a year but has left her in Australia despite apparently being concerned for her safety.
This leads me to believe he is either lying to her and has no intention of taking care of her, or he is unable to take care of her due to his alcoholism and or financial irresponsiblity.
She is very suggestible and he is obviously good at influencing people online. He's taking advantage of her because having a little girl like scarlett depend on him makes him feel like a real man, however he has no intention of actually being a man and reliably looking after her.
You all like Xadem because he compliments and encourages you but he doesn't really care, this is just a ploy to maintain popularity online so he can feel some sense of power and accomplishment in his otherwise unsuccessful unfulfilling life.
He doesn't care about you and he doesn't care about her. It's obvious in how she defends him but he rarely seems to do the same. He only cares about himself.
And while most of you can look after yourselves, Scarlett can't. I have proven that I'm not going to abandon her, she should be with me.