All I look for is:
1. Someone who doesn't beat me
2. Someone who respects me
3. Is smart
4. Is attractive
It's sad how small that list is and how Jim still doesn't live up to even one of those. This is why it is over. I am finished with dating though, so it doesn't matter how many people fit that profile. I am sticking with my I hate all people thing, but when the kid is old enough, I will get a guy who fits these qualities, just to hang out with me and the kid once a week without sex, just so the kid feels like he has a dad and I'll just say his dad lives far so he can only come once a week.