post stuff that your ex's have done and if you feel like it, story times, how and why the relationships went terribly wrong, whatever you feel like. let it all be a testament. in which we will bury deep in the ground like a time capsule to never surface again (hopefully).
to our ex's, cheers
I'd be mostly posting a bunch of BDSM stuff, which strikes me as somewhat redundant.
I dunno, my breakups have tended to go pretty well (save for the ex-fiance shenanigans). I typically try to stay friends with them after the fact and find little trouble in accomplishing it.
You see though, gaslighting is tricky.
It's become more trendy to accuse people of doing it... when instead potentially the one yelling it is actually being delusional. Like, what do you even do to convince someone of a temporarily and radically aberrant world view that what they're saying or thinking isn't sensible these days? Telling friends about it has a way of typically just being enabled and back pat by said friends instead of getting any truly unbiased data, typically leading to more self-driven skew that is independent of the need for truth.
That aside the 1944 movie is great:
