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Huh, I was talking about Aizen, do you feel personally attacked?

user33313 said:

What motivates such a model of interracting with other people?

That's just it, they aren't interacting with other people, they're interacting at other people. 

This is just about fluffing up pre-existing inner narratives, rather than aiming for some level of vicariousness or social interaction. 

user33313 said: 

People generally do not tolerate this, and stray away from the ones that exhibit it.

You'd be surprised.

There's a lot of people who respond strangely to a confident display, which is largely why narcissism has any room to fuck with people at all in spite of themselves. 

user33313 said: 

Huh, I was talking about Aizen, do you feel personally attacked?

I was saying trolls are living rent free in your head,not necessarily me.

By making this thread you are feeding him, paying off his efforts.

user33313 said: 

I have noticed similar patterns across different individuals. Motivations may vary, however the modus operandi is the same.

Those individuals lurk around in chat-rooms all day. They interract with people in a way that tries to undermine them and make them feel bad.

The generic approach is to have random chats from time to time, however the difference is that their purpose through those chats is to simply build rapport to the people they're talking to. Making them actually engage.

After this, they keep acting in a demeaning and belittling manner towards the other people. At this point, if the other person replies in kind, they keep pressing around the same ideas until the other person either gives up and just accepts that that's just how they are, or keeps engaging in this combative dynamic.

I believe people that interract this way have turbo-autism, as I would define it.

The framing of the interraction is shifted to an ego-based one. Rather than doing what you wanna do, or talking about what you wanna talk, you become coerced into either defending your reputation, or getting some revenge for their transgressions on your person.

Neither of those is optimal. Because you just get reframed into doing what someone else wants you to do, manipulated, even.

It's interesting for me to see what exactly is the end game of this sort of behaviour. I think it's rather lonely.

What motivates such a model of interracting with other people? It's clearly dysfunctional in my eyes. People generally do not tolerate this, and stray away from the ones that exhibit it.

 You answered it yourself 

It's ego fuel