>calls tryp toxic
>proceeds to call him a loser and criticize his life progress/position
Sam Vaknin would love you blanc
Problems I ran into when dating Tryp:
That’s not how it was for me. He has actually been the most amazing person I’ve ever been with. He always tries to help me get over myself and just love him without fear. The only thing he ever did that this guy talked about was try to make me feel what he felt when I talked about and to other guys, but he just did stuff like ask you for sex and stuff. I guess he also said I couldn’t be president, but I get that. He always tries to help me with my problems. If anything, I was way more toxic than he was. Also, we weren’t in a relationship. We just hung out for a while. He’s like an angel though, I don’t see how you could say such evil things about him when he’s always nice to almost everyone all of the time.
Withholding sex in a relationship is more abusive than any of these bullshitty signs.
Ex did that to me for a year once. Like it was more important for her to shit test me than having sex or something. She could have been on SSRI's at the time cause when it was over she'd do a complete 180 on the no sex thing. Sometimes it would be a complete set up, like "Going to bed at the same time" then she'd scold me if I get wood after agreeing yet again that we won't be banging.
It's impossible not to get wood when a guy cuddles with his partner. It was as though I was being set up for destruction, while she was all "God is that all you can think about ?" I'm like damn woman, don't make contact with my crotch then. For a year. Months !
Problems I ran into when dating Tryp:
At first I thought you were just being whiny, but I think I can kinda imagine where your head was at when you were watching this.