What would you propose people do, keep their kids locked in closets?
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What would you propose people do, keep their kids locked in closets?
He is my favorite killer. Him and Jeffrey Dahmer.
There will be more sandy hook's in the future, unless the state legislature don't get their heads out of their asses
I agree that there are some negatives to how our society is structured. For example, kids go to a school with other kids. Good for socializing. Bad in the aspect that the person showing up is sometimes just "doing their job," when that is the person supposed to be supervising an entire set of children. One of my friends back in high school actually got bullied by a teacher for wearing the same sweater every day, and naturally the classmates joined in. She got fired a year later for screaming at a student, throwing an eraser at him, and saying she hated her job.
Point to all of this is, there is not always a reasonable or clear control over what kids are experiencing. It's supposed to be the job of parents to establish self-confidence and awareness in kids. Now we're talking about something different from society. The home is where the real significant things happen, in my opinion.
Talking about Jeffrey Dahmer since you mentioned him, he was failed for the entire ride of childhood. Emotionally unavailable father who basically thought Jeff was doing well and his interest in tearing apart animals might parlay into taxonomy. Mother who was tuned out. No repercussions for showing up to school drunk. No one supervising was paying attention; not his family, not his teachers. He could have been a very different person if people noticed what was going on.
I agree that there are some negatives to how our society is structured. For example, kids go to a school with other kids. Good for socializing. Bad in the aspect that the person showing up is sometimes just "doing their job," when that is the person supposed to be supervising an entire set of children. One of my friends back in high school actually got bullied by a teacher for wearing the same sweater every day, and naturally the classmates joined in. She got fired a year later for screaming at a student, throwing an eraser at him, and saying she hated her job.
Point to all of this is, there is not always a reasonable or clear control over what kids are experiencing. It's supposed to be the job of parents to establish self-confidence and awareness in kids. Now we're talking about something different from society. The home is where the real significant things happen, in my opinion.
Talking about Jeffrey Dahmer since you mentioned him, he was failed for the entire ride of childhood. Emotionally unavailable father who basically thought Jeff was doing well and his interest in tearing apart animals might parlay into taxonomy. Mother who was tuned out. No repercussions for showing up to school drunk. No one supervising was paying attention; not his family, not his teachers. He could have been a very different person if people noticed what was going on.
Creeps me out to read about the childhoods of serial killers. Scares me a bit. Makes me think my plan is inevitable. Kind of seems that way even without realizing that my childhood was very similar to some serial killer's childhood. I’m trying my best to not follow my plan, but no matter what I change, it seems like my life will be such that any moment of weakness I have, could lead to me doing evil things. My issue is once I start, I will not be able to stop. Once you kill one person, I’m pretty sure heaven is off of the table.
Society is the worst creation ever. I freaking hate how terrible it has become. I’m sure it was okay to start, but there are so many issues with it that I’m very surprised no one has blown up the world yet. It seriously makes no sense to be in a society like ours unless you’re rich. People literally work their entire lives, for someone else, and have nothing to pass on to their children. They work all day, and all week and all year all of their lives just to make someone else rich. Why live if 99% of your life will be spent working? Not building something you can be proud of, or anything good. Just working to make your rent and your boss richer.
It just makes no sense to me. We are all born, and we all die, so why do we have to waste our lives trying to fit a mold some old dead person decided would be best? Why can’t we just explore the world have enjoy our lives? I understand the issue with there being too many people so we need to create something to prevent total chaos, but I don’t know. I almost think I would prefer if we all killed each other. At least then Jesus will come back finally and we can all just chill for all of eternity in heaven. I have many, more coherent, reasons who I hate society, but I need to pee and make a thread that I’m more interested in.
I agree that there are some negatives to how our society is structured. For example, kids go to a school with other kids. Good for socializing. Bad in the aspect that the person showing up is sometimes just "doing their job," when that is the person supposed to be supervising an entire set of children. One of my friends back in high school actually got bullied by a teacher for wearing the same sweater every day, and naturally the classmates joined in. She got fired a year later for screaming at a student, throwing an eraser at him, and saying she hated her job.
Point to all of this is, there is not always a reasonable or clear control over what kids are experiencing. It's supposed to be the job of parents to establish self-confidence and awareness in kids. Now we're talking about something different from society. The home is where the real significant things happen, in my opinion.
Talking about Jeffrey Dahmer since you mentioned him, he was failed for the entire ride of childhood. Emotionally unavailable father who basically thought Jeff was doing well and his interest in tearing apart animals might parlay into taxonomy. Mother who was tuned out. No repercussions for showing up to school drunk. No one supervising was paying attention; not his family, not his teachers. He could have been a very different person if people noticed what was going on.
Teachers are just as shitty humans as you and me. There is no way around this fact. I think as a child if you realize it or not you tend to see teachers in some way as a God figure that is untouchable... They know everything, they have the authority, they are older, higher status etc... But in reality they are very mediocre and not very smart. They just seem smart because they teach kids. Also that they are good in biology or math does not mean that they are smart in relationships etc. I don't know how it is in other countries but on German universities unless you are into math or physics if you study to be a teacher everyone rolls eyes and thinks you are dumb or mediocre. There are even jokes that say if you are dumb or don't know what to study you study to become a teacher. The reality is they are just normal people. Which also means it is unfair to give them too much responsibility or fault. Just lower your expectations. Also that there is societal responsibility does not mean there is no individual responsibility.
I agree that there are some negatives to how our society is structured. For example, kids go to a school with other kids. Good for socializing. Bad in the aspect that the person showing up is sometimes just "doing their job," when that is the person supposed to be supervising an entire set of children. One of my friends back in high school actually got bullied by a teacher for wearing the same sweater every day, and naturally the classmates joined in. She got fired a year later for screaming at a student, throwing an eraser at him, and saying she hated her job.
Point to all of this is, there is not always a reasonable or clear control over what kids are experiencing. It's supposed to be the job of parents to establish self-confidence and awareness in kids. Now we're talking about something different from society. The home is where the real significant things happen, in my opinion.
Talking about Jeffrey Dahmer since you mentioned him, he was failed for the entire ride of childhood. Emotionally unavailable father who basically thought Jeff was doing well and his interest in tearing apart animals might parlay into taxonomy. Mother who was tuned out. No repercussions for showing up to school drunk. No one supervising was paying attention; not his family, not his teachers. He could have been a very different person if people noticed what was going on.
Teachers are just as shitty humans as you and me. There is no way around this fact. I think as a child if you realize it or not you tend to see teachers in some way as a God figure that is untouchable... They know everything, they have the authority, they are older, higher status etc... But in reality they are very mediocre and not very smart. They just seem smart because they teach kids. Also that they are good in biology or math does not mean that they are smart in relationships etc. I don't know how it is in other countries but on German universities unless you are into math or physics if you study to be a teacher everyone rolls eyes and thinks you are dumb or mediocre. There are even jokes that say if you are dumb or don't know what to study you study to become a teacher. The reality is they are just normal people. Which also means it is unfair to give them too much responsibility or fault. Just lower your expectations. Also that there is societal responsibility does not mean there is no individual responsibility.
I knew my teachers were just normal people, but I also knew they were older, so they lived through a lot of their lives already. I thought they should be strong because they’ve had time to get strong, but I was wrong. It was so easy to make my teachers cry and quit. I’m not into hurting weak people, so teachers were my main target because I thought adults were strong. I guess that’s why I think everyone is weak. Everyone takes things to heart like they don’t one who they are or what is true about themselves.