I'm can be a hypocrite. By not always practicing what I preach, despite a tendency to tell people what to do instead of empathising and accepting their own way of handling things. We are all motivated in different ways after all, and handing someone all the right steps & info is very short sighted. 

It's something which I see in nearly every aspect of my life. I don't like being a hypocrite, but I don't think it in itself makes me a bad person. It's important to recognise these behaviours. I anticipate that changing this will require an active effort to continuously monitor myself