Have you ever done it? It's amazing the effect of taking a shower, putting on a nice perfume, some casual but nice clothes ( pants not shorts ) just to stay at home. Funny thing is, when I don't feel like going out to do something and I plan to postpone, if I get myself nicely dressed, I will naturally get the will to just go out and solve shit since I am already looking good.
Brain is a funny organic computer that is not hard to hack.
I've been doing my makeup everyday for fun and wearing perfume as well. Only have actually changed out of pjs for special occasions like holiday dinners and date nights with bae. Even though we didn't leave the house it is fun to emulate normalcy.
I've been doing my makeup everyday for fun and wearing perfume as well. Only have actually changed out of pjs for special occasions like holiday dinners and date nights with bae. Even though we didn't leave the house it is fun to emulate normalcy.
You live with your partner, must be better to cope because you are not alone. I think that if I lived with someone else no matter who I would do all of that naturally. I don't know. But yeah emulating normalcy works wonders, it's amazing.
You people are lucky. When I get dressed nice and don’t leave the house, it’s because I can’t make myself leave the house, even though I put the work in to dress nice, put shoes on, and collect everything I need to leave the house.
Now that I’m not in school or working, I rarely leave the house. Luckily, I’ve been traveling for almost two weeks now, so I leave my room slightly more often than I do when I’m home. I wish all I had to do was get dressed and then I’ll want to take care of stuff. My anxiety and depression are too strong to overcome by just going through the motions. I need to have something to do that will ruin my life if I don’t do it. That’s the only way my brain will allow me to leave the house. That, or if my parents want to go somewhere with me, or if I’m traveling, or getting too fat.
