Concealing behind trolling and dark humor, is an emotional empath who occasionally manages to break through withdrawn subconsciousness.
i instantly get empathy for anyone on forums or discord servers that im on who are genuinely suicidal. the ones who fake it get zero compassion from me and in fact i get annoyed by them and there have been those on here too. ik they have their reasons but i dont have a soft spot for them like i do for real suicidal people
i instantly get empathy for anyone on forums or discord servers that im on who are genuinely suicidal. the ones who fake it get zero compassion from me and in fact i get annoyed by them and there have been those on here too. ik they have their reasons but i dont have a soft spot for them like i do for real suicidal people
What would you say are some telltale signs for suicidal legitimacy?
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i instantly get empathy for anyone on forums or discord servers that im on who are genuinely suicidal. the ones who fake it get zero compassion from me and in fact i get annoyed by them and there have been those on here too. ik they have their reasons but i dont have a soft spot for them like i do for real suicidal people
What would you say are some telltale signs for suicidal legitimacy?
20 knife stabs in the back, legs tied to a weight and jumping into a deep river, with a printed suicide note left in the suiciders living room.
Cheery bye!
i instantly get empathy for anyone on forums or discord servers that im on who are genuinely suicidal. the ones who fake it get zero compassion from me and in fact i get annoyed by them and there have been those on here too. ik they have their reasons but i dont have a soft spot for them like i do for real suicidal people
What would you say are some telltale signs for suicidal legitimacy?
I would say people who are genuinely suicidal dont have the energy to like be hurting other people and doing things for their own selfish benefit and enjoyment. when people get suicidal they feel so hopeless and worthless that they stop sticking up for themselves as they sink deeper into depression and its when a lot of people fall away(sometimes due to thst person pushing them away)and stop caring about them too. and thats why when i can pick up on people being in this mental space I try to think of whatever i can to help pull them up out of it. its a time when you need people the most and there arent many around who will genuinely get it but ive been there before so I do
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the most important thing they need to be assured of is that its not impossible for their life to be better and more livable in the future. so whatever you can do to help prove that likelihood to them because they will be pretty strongly convinced there is no hope
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i instantly get empathy for anyone on forums or discord servers that im on who are genuinely suicidal. the ones who fake it get zero compassion from me and in fact i get annoyed by them and there have been those on here too. ik they have their reasons but i dont have a soft spot for them like i do for real suicidal people
What would you say are some telltale signs for suicidal legitimacy?
I would say people who are genuinely suicidal dont have the energy to like be hurting other people and doing things for their own selfish benefit and enjoyment. when people get suicidal they feel so hopeless and worthless that they stop sticking up for themselves as they sink deeper into depression and its when a lot of people fall away(sometimes due to thst person pushing them away)and stop caring about them too.
The hurtful behaviors could just as easily be compensation for their own inner pain, or how they try to distance people from themselves so that they can default back to solo suicidal thoughts without as much social collateral to weigh them down. Some forms of BPD for instance can exhibit these sorts of behaviors.
Think of school bullies, a lot of them express angst and suicidal tendencies, and effectively their bullying is a way to proxy their own pain through another, like how someone might use the physical pain cutting to try to relieve the emotional pain of their depression.
The slow drained stage of depression isn't there from day one for a lot of people, and descending into it can appear outwardly aggressive at first for some people. The five stages of grief usually have a place where someone rests more naturally for how they handle loss and change in their lives, and anger is one of those responses (denial's the really wiggy one though).
The form of it you're talking about's probably either a person who is more prone to coping through bartering, or is too drained from all the energy being partitioned into the heavier parts of the depression itself.
and thats why when i can pick up on people being in this mental space I try to think of whatever i can to help pull them up out of it. its a time when you need people the most and there arent many around who will genuinely get it but ive been there before so I do
I've found that most people on some level find life to be a tedious struggle, and that that has made people question "Is Life Worth It?". Most people encounter suicidal thoughts, but how they handle them... yeah, it tends to land somewhere within the five stages of grief for their coping.
How do you usually try to pull them out of it?
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I dont want to talk about it anymore sorry its an emotional subject for me
Because you relate to it?
I relate to it too, but that's made it easier for me to talk about with other people instead of harder. As opposed to that whole "JUST LOOK AT THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE" bullshit a lot of people peddle, I go for something closer to "I agree with you, but while I don't like your ideation of this idea, I don't want it because you mean stuff to me".
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I dont want to talk about it anymore sorry its an emotional subject for me
Because you relate to it?
I relate to it too, but that's made it easier for me to talk about with other people instead of harder. As opposed to that whole "JUST LOOK AT THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE" bullshit a lot of people peddle, I go for something closer to "I agree with you, but while I don't like your ideation of this idea, I don't want it because you mean stuff to me".
ya I have done that too i do both but im sad because 2 people I tried to help did kill themselves, even tho I didnt know either of them especially well it still makes me sad because i think of what if there is something I could have done or said differently