lol explain, but I'm pretty sure you're the minority. Im not but are you really TC? I'm talking about, think of all the people you talk about every day for a week. how many of them are you seriously sexually attracted to. the only 2 on my list the last week I have sexual attraction feelings for that I might have talked about were slay and tryptamine
Connecting with people is my primary focus for people in general, but sexual attraction to me is not (entirely) related to it. I can be attracted to something about someone without otherwise wanting to do much about it from other context.
In general, attempting to see how someone's mind works is my thing, and sex has a way of unlocking a lot of inner stuff that you'd not really see about that person without it. It shows their vulnerabilities and a lot of their automatic behaviors, even if they're the ones expressing dominance. It also causes the "pillow talk" phenomenon which is pretty fun for getting to the heart of their personal depths.
It's stimulating, but it's more about curiosity than lust.
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