I prefer lazy relaxed and chill and that's how my personality is. but it is the uptight control freaks who get all the hard work done while i relax and enjoy all their efforts so I appreciate that personality type too:)
just not for like, friends or enjoying their companionship
i've been compared to a cat a lot too lol can definitely relate I get bursts of energy but most of the time just chill
sometimes I feel like a cat in a human body i think its why cats love me so much they come up to me all the time out of nowhere whenever im outside or even in like parking lots lol
I tend to get stronger connections out of control freaks, as cleansing repression is a great way to bond. A person who challenges themselves instead of just relaxing all the time also has more of a chance of pulling potential from themselves, and will be generally more motivated towards things like self-improvement, the arts, etc.
Chill people are alright, but they aren't as inherently rewarding through already being so chill. Fixing a control freak's stress leads to much better stuff than someone who's just inherently comfortable, and sometimes their relaxing, from having it be less common, outshines the default veggie through how hard they've had to work at accomplishing it normally. It's the difference between sleeping on the sofa and preparing a nice rose scented bath.
Granted, I am basically saying that I like control freaks because chilling them out makes them cooler than already chill people, which still supports the merits of being chill. Watching someone who can't relax finally do it has "being chill" seem like a hot tub experience instead of a slow paced lifestyle, and that makes it seem more inherently decadent and hedonistic by comparison.
That look of releasing carried strain is so nice, and I find it easier to relate to self-challenged people. I can admire someone who looks so comfortable for being a natural, but I don't inherently "get it".
I tend to get stronger connections out of control freaks, as cleansing repression is a great way to bond. A person who challenges themselves instead of just relaxing all the time also has more of a chance of pulling potential from themselves, and will be generally more motivated towards things like self-improvement, the arts, etc.
Chill people are alright, but they aren't as inherently rewarding through already being so chill. Fixing a control freak's stress leads to much better stuff than someone who's just inherently comfortable, and sometimes their relaxing, from having it be less common, outshines the default veggie through how hard they've had to work at accomplishing it normally.
Granted, I am basically saying that I like control freaks because chilling them out makes them cooler than already chill people, which still supports the merits of being chill. Watching someone who can't relax finally do it has "being chill" seem like a hot tub experience instead of a slow paced lifestyle, and that makes it seem more inherently decadent and hedonistic by comparison.
That look of releasing carried strain is so nice, and I find it easier to relate to challenged people. I can admire someone who looks so comfortable for being a natural, but I don't inherently "get it".
lol like being the human version of a hottub:p I will agree with you they become so much more enjoyable when they chill the fuck out either through substances or through just being around me. i either severely irritate these types by not giving a fuck or chill them out yeah. i prefer people who are already chill though and especially if they are chill in ways that i'm not so its a nice balance
Chill people are essentially low maintenance, and that can be nice if you already feel like you're dealing with too much. Past a point though you'll see that the chill types have very few plans in their lives and tend to just lump in one place, drifting with the flow instead of selfishly indulging in their own needs (some of them are also kinda slow, usually).
I find it worth chilling out "control freaks", as it often is as easy as being an active listener or just cultivating things that the established mutual voice between me and them both like. Basically, if I can make how I'm behaving synergize with the things they want as well, then they're basically chill while I've done very little to make it happen.
A lot of chilling out a C.F. comes from cultivating the right environment. As long as what they want isn't that demanding it's like having a classier chill person. Think of peaceful zen monks, they are very clearly control freaks who've done this very thing with their temple lives and other very complicated choices of distraction.
Chill people are essentially low maintenance, and that can be nice if you already feel like you're dealing with too much. Past a point though you'll see that the chill types have very few plans in their lives and tend to just lump in one place, drifting with the flow instead of selfishly indulging in their own needs.
I find it worth chilling them out, as it often is as easy as being an active listener or just cultivating things that the established mutual voice between me and them both like. Basically, if I can make how I'm behaving synergize with the things they want as well, then they're basically chill while I've done very little to make it happen.
A lot of chilling out a "control freak" comes from cultivating the right environment. As long as what they want isn't that demanding it's like having a classier chill person.
classiness to me isnt that interesting i prefer messy and different:) im glad that classiness exists and definitely like the basics such as proper hygiene and English but too much classiness is boring af to me
I prefer a mix of the two. I don’t care for control freaks or overly chill.. to the point of lazy and unmotivated people. I get along best with people who are in control of their lives, can take charge of a situation when needed... and who are also easy going and relaxed in temperament.
If i I had to choose between control freak and chilled lazy, I’d choose control freak. A lazy person would bore me to death.
