this is a thread to be brutally honest. things that i secretely hate but, never say anything about or do anything about. it's just, i hate it, for whatever reason.
1. when people say "no," or "no no," directly after something i said. negating it.
2. ignoring me when i'm talking to them / not looking me in the eye (to me it's a sign of disrespect)
3. interrupting me when i'm talking / not letting me finish
4. assuming i'm arguing, debating, or attacking someone when i'm often not
5. assuming things that i implied out of something i said, even though that's not what i meant. (if i wanted to get that across, i would of directly said it as i am a very direct person. if i didn't directly say it, that's not what i was meaning at all.) or just assuming things in general about me.
6. don't touch me. no seriously, don't. (when strangers come up behnd you and put their hand on your shoulder)
7. commenting on my appearance, good or bad. i.e when strangers are like, "you need put that pretty smile on ur face more"
8. when strangers think they can talk to me. please don't. having conversations with strangers.
9. when random men assume my sexuality and make comments about me needing to meet a good man?
10. when people don't move out of the way to let you by, or don't say excuse me to let themselves by.
11. when people talk to me through a closed door, whatever it is i'm doing, i don't want to talk to you while i'm doing it. hence the closed door. which implies i want to be alone, and quiet.
12. yelling across spaces at me. or if we're not even in the same room and you yell to me. i hate that.
13. when people move my stuff. even if it's doing my laundry for me. i actually hate that, and don't want anyone touching my stuff. privacy.
14. when people don't use the sidewalk when there very clearly is one
