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This is called codependency 

everything you’ve been saying about your relationship on this forum has reeked of being horribly unhealthy and i demise. 

But there is nothing less to be suspected from two people who are uh, not the epitome of mental health so. At least you are happy together for a while and, well. All the best. Perhaps you will learn to over come things that become battles. 

It’ll either be love or a lesson. 

I’m just weary of addiction in relationships, it never goes well. But if the other person is just as sick as the addict is, they will stay with them no matter how toxic the relationship is, because they themselves are unhealthy to begin with. 

There is no shame in forming unhealthy attachments, a lot of people with trauma (including people with bpd) will do this at least once in their life time or sometimes unfortunately repiteadedly. 

I just know they can really hurt. There are several types of unhealthy attachments or “trauma bonds” as they call them and I urge you to read about it. Some people particularly deep in it may be too in denial to recognize they are doing one of the things on the list. But yeah I can admit I have been guilty of forming a trauma bond with someone i believe and. 

Yeah it was really unhealthy for me, and thats probably an understatement. And then because that person is bonded in with your trauma issues, whatever they do will really start to emotionally affect you,.. like, you’ll be putting yourself through the shit you already went through essentially, all over again. It’s called reliving your trauma is the cliche way to put it. 

And yeah, I’m very guilty of this lmao 

Blanc said: 

This is called codependency 

What, you hear of two people being happy together and you immediately have to shit on it? 

misery loves company, even tho she cant get any

As a side note, awkwardness can be both charming and inviting through the expression of vulnerability. It really depends on if your partner's looking for someone underfoot, equal, or someone who wants to feel in charge. 

I used to fake nervousness in prison to make prisoners think I was normal. Inever ever felt a single ounce of nervousness during prison time for some reason.

Blanc said: 

This is called codependency 

 

everything you’ve been saying about your relationship on this forum has reeked of being horribly unhealthy and i demise. 

 

But there is nothing less to be suspected from two people who are uh, not the epitome of mental health so. At least you are happy together for a while and, well. All the best. Perhaps you will learn to over come things that become battles. 

 

It’ll either be love or a lesson. 

 

I’m just weary of addiction in relationships, it never goes well. But if the other person is just as sick as the addict is, they will stay with them no matter how toxic the relationship is, because they themselves are unhealthy to begin with. 

 

There is no shame in forming unhealthy attachments, a lot of people with trauma (including people with bpd) will do this at least once in their life time or sometimes unfortunately repiteadedly. 

 

I just know they can really hurt. There are several types of unhealthy attachments or “trauma bonds” as they call them and I urge you to read about it. Some people particularly deep in it may be too in denial to recognize they are doing one of the things on the list. But yeah I can admit I have been guilty of forming a trauma bond with someone i believe and. 

 

 

Yeah it was really unhealthy for me, and thats probably an understatement. And then because that person is bonded in with your trauma issues, whatever they do will really start to emotionally affect you,.. like, you’ll be putting yourself through the shit you already went through essentially, all over again. It’s called reliving your trauma is the cliche way to put it. 

 

And yeah, I’m very guilty of this lmao 

 Ig I'm healthier and less codependent than I thought then bc I keep putting ultimatums on him to get him sober and they are working lol 

but what it really is is that I dont mind killing myself in fact I think im at a point where my immune system will just shut down altogether I get really sick and die if Im alone again but idc if that happens, like id prefer it not but idc so that's why I wont tolerate his self-destructive behaviors that especially annoy me

KluKluxKlan said: 

I used to fake nervousness in prison to make prisoners think I was normal. Inever ever felt a single ounce of nervousness during prison time for some reason.

 haha yeah i  bet you faked being an insecure little bitch all your life while in reality you're just 2 cool 4 feelings