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Everyone asks me if I had trauma in childhood


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Wtf lmao. Whenever I meet someone somewhat socially savvy they tell me "have you had trauma?" "did you have a bad childhood i can feel it"

What kind of prey signals am I giving to these clowns I wonder?

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Most people that hurt other people do it because they themselves are hurt. Yes its a meme but it keeps being proven.

You're more likely to be a meanie if your mommy/daddy didn't love you. It's not even an insightful thing to point out anymore, that's how common it is.

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I am nothing like this in real life though. I try to come across as friendly and nice.

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I see that you're turkish and then I just assume your life sucks. 

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Xadem pretty much nailed it, it's the aggression/sadistic humor.

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I see that you're turkish and then I just assume your life sucks. 

 A Romanian gypsy that lives in turkey. The lowest kind of animal to exist.

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even lower than a turkish gypsy who'd be living in romania? 

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Wtf lmao. Whenever I meet someone somewhat socially savvy they tell me "have you had trauma?" "did you have a bad childhood i can feel it"

What kind of prey signals am I giving to these clowns I wonder?

I thought you were trying to telegraph that to people to shmooze easier friendships with "I guess he's human after all" kinds of steering. 

If they know you're fucked it becomes easier to get people to sympathize with you, which gave me the impression you were doing it on purpose. 

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To actually answer the OP though, they likely see your gestures as a form of compensating. Putting on a strong front typically is symptomatic of prior damages, based on fucked up peer modeling and a warped notion of what'll happen if you don't. 

Confidence is seen in how easy it is for you to relax. 

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I see that you're turkish and then I just assume your life sucks. 

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Confidence is seen in how easy it is for you to relax. 

 Hm yeah that must be it. I startle when I hear noises behind me. I am very vigilant and ready to go.

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