Message Turncoat in a DM to get moderator attention

Users Online(? lurkers):
9 posts
0 votes

Will be living with my boyfriend in our new room in less than 2 weeks


Posts: 478

wish us luck and everything and that something doesn't go horribly wrong

am very excited but also anxious but also hardcore in love and hopeful that true love can conquer all challenges

Posts: 32790
0 votes RE: Will be living with my ...

Good for you, this will be when you both see the true monsters that each of you are. 

I always have recommended living with someone for at least a year before tying any sorts of hardcore commitment knots. You need to see each other's problems to see if they possess long term synergy, even down to the smallest social allergy (like if they leave footprints or small messes and stuff). 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
Posts: 478
0 votes RE: Will be living with my ...

Good for you, this will be when you both see the true monsters that each of you are. 

I always have recommended living with someone for at least a year before tying any sorts of hardcore commitment knots. You need to see each other's problems to see if they possess long term synergy, even down to the smallest social allergy (like if they leave footprints or small messes and stuff). 

we are both borderline so we just merge into each other and change our wants and needs for each other lmao, also we unintentionally balance each other out in like every way possible just naturally bc soulmates

last edit on 7/25/2020 4:03:17 AM
Posts: 478
0 votes RE: Will be living with my ...

he is more stronger like narcissistically masked and very social borderline whereas I'm the more passive introverted borderline

last edit on 7/25/2020 4:06:00 AM
Posts: 478
0 votes RE: Will be living with my ...

&I'm an empath and he isn't or at least he is very cut off from it but he's trying to work on being more empathetic and I'm trying to care less about if I upset other people by being true to myself and wanting my physical psychological and emotional needs met

last edit on 7/25/2020 4:27:34 AM
Posts: 32790
0 votes RE: Will be living with my ...

Good for you, this will be when you both see the true monsters that each of you are. 

I always have recommended living with someone for at least a year before tying any sorts of hardcore commitment knots. You need to see each other's problems to see if they possess long term synergy, even down to the smallest social allergy (like if they leave footprints or small messes and stuff). 

we are both borderline so we just merge into each other and change our wants and needs for each other lmao, also we unintentionally balance each other out in like every way possible just naturally bc soulmates

Do you figure that's how it works for two people of the same disorder, or is this just a Borderline thing? 

Either way, living together's an essential step. It's how you can truly test this blustery bravado to see how much truth's in it's longevity. I'd say this is a good thing even if it doesn't work out. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
last edit on 7/25/2020 11:04:33 AM
Posts: 9306
0 votes RE: Will be living with my ...

How’d you guys meet

Posts: 9306
0 votes RE: Will be living with my ...

Oh yeah I tho k you told me it was in the rehab 

Posts: 45
1 votes RE: Will be living with my ...

Good luck, i really really mean that

9 posts
This site contains NSFW material. To view and use this site, you must be 18+ years of age.