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Banning? what did he do to deserve this?

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What ban? 

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15:59:41

It's hard to be a good person when you're surrounded by terrible people. 

Is it? 

Yes sir. If you're truly a good person.

I disagree. If someone is a good person, they should feel emboldened by how horrible people are around them to try to not be "like them". They serve as a catalyst of what not to be yourself, and the room for them to enable bad paths works like having your willpower tested. 

This only is hard on shallow people with a weak foundation. Your immediate company should have no impact on who you are if you aren't a weak willed simp. 

You dont want to seem like you're trying to be better than people and you dont want to seem like you're trying to put yourself in the spotlight, but you really want to get through to people because you care about everyone, but you also want them to listen to you, so you cant seem too weak. It's a very difficult task and it really requires a crap ton of thinking. I guess you havent really thought through the position you are in or want to be in, or you havent decided that being a good person, no matter what, is better than being a terrible person.

It doesn't seem that difficult to me, are you sure you're an expert on this? 

I can guide you if you wish, but I'm not perfect, so these are just opinions and theories. 

Can you? 

Please do, who knows I might learn something. 

 This is the most beautiful set of opinions I have seen in a while because it allows me to drop the mic, so to speak. Do you really think people who are not considered good would listen to someone who is so self ritious that they think every word they speak is universal? By this I mean, do you really think everyone is in the same place when it comes to receiving information from someone who objectively is considered better than them? This is not to say that I think I am.or other people think I am better than anyone. This is a thought experiment. If someone came up to you and said they were better than you because they were nice, would that seem nice to you? If they threw their own logic at you as if your misunderstanding of it meant you were stupid, would that be nice? If they told someone who had been raped and never married that they were terrible because they had sex before marriage, would that be nice? No. You have to change the way you say things or at least where you begin in the conversation, based on where the person is in the journey of understanding what is good and how to become it, otherwise, you're likely just another hypocrite. Not everyone is the same or even coming from the same place, so it is inevitable that you have to start somewhere different or pitch something different for each person  based on their unique experiences and way of thinking. You can't save a suicidal cutter by explaining that scars never heal, but you might be able to save a suicidal model that way, depending on his/her values. I hope this makes what I am saying more clear. The message is the same, it is the delivery that differs. 

Wow, *mic drop*

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