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Aw, no young one. That's not accurate. Some people do not treat people well or even understand them, but others you would cherish if you gave them a chance. Try approaching women with who you are and not what you have or what you could give them. Expectations are set based on what you bring to the table when you first meet. Treat someone terribly, that's all they will expect. Treat them nice, they will not allow anything different. Give them food and money, they will think this is your worth. Bring them the entirety of who you are and they will expect you, but will hope for more. This allows you to start from where you are and will always be if you do not change, but it will humble you and allow you to recieve feedback and adjust, even if it is in a different relationship. Even if it takes years. You will not go backwards by promising riches when you have them temporarily, but instead move forward when you acknowledge all that you may have done wrong and explain that is all you know. You will be able to start from there and pick up new habits along the way. If they dont like you, they were not meant to be in your life at this time. You will find someone who makes you want to be the person you wish you were, if the world were a nicer place. Survival mode versus being secure in who you are and not who your parents made you, is key. Be the person you wish saved you when you were young, then try to be even better.
Aw, no young one. That's not accurate. Some people do not treat people well or even understand them, but others you would cherish if you gave them a chance. Try approaching women with who you are and not what you have or what you could give them. Expectations are set based on what you bring to the table when you first meet. Treat someone terribly, that's all they will expect. Treat them nice, they will not allow anything different. Give them food and money, they will think this is your worth. Bring them the entirety of who you are and they will expect you, but will hope for more. This allows you to start from where you are and will always be if you do not change, but it will humble you and allow you to recieve feedback and adjust, even if it is in a different relationship. Even if it takes years. You will not go backwards by promising riches when you have them temporarily, but instead move forward when you acknowledge all that you may have done wrong and explain that is all you know. You will be able to start from there and pick up new habits along the way. If they dont like you, they were not meant to be in your life at this time. You will find someone who makes you want to be the person you wish you were, if the world were a nicer place. Survival mode versus being secure in who you are and not who your parents made you, is key. Be the person you wish saved you when you were young, then try to be even better.
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