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Coffee and crime time


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I know i already have a thread about criminology and shit somewhere, but search feature is broken so here is a new one I’m sorry ur welcome cheers *clangs coffee cup to ur forehead*

 

 

Just wanna make it clear I’m not like finding entertainment in people’s suffering, i like to talk about the cases and share my opinions about it, because i like solving problems, or seeing how other people did it. That’s all there is to it. 

 

But lately crime has become the modern day soap opera, and has gained a large, mostly female following on the internet, across many channels. And then it’s linked with the reddit community and other social media so, there is sort of this collective, “care” about real time things that are happening- sometimes, it even benefits the case, to get this much exposure, or to have new eyes on it. Especially the eyes of internet sleuths. 

 

Some cases have been solved due to social media & technology, and through pro-bono hackers of reddit. It’s pretty cool thing to be a part of because, it’s a community of people who genuinely care, and who would all help if they could, do anything. 

last edit on 5/15/2020 10:34:07 PM
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Completely random side note about the video. She is astonishingly gorgeous and you’re telling me she is dating that guy???? 

 

Ok moving on anyways *resumes professional nature* the video where he’s asking for his daughter back is obviously well thought out and scripted, people coach you on what to say that could have a higher success of motivating her to come back on her own volition and that won’t endanger her. 

 

But i did find it odd that majority of the things he mentioned about her were strictly about her appearance. According to Jim Can’t Swim’s criminal psychology videos, when someone talks about their own child in this way, it is a tell-tale sign they didn’t have a tight knit relationship and it’s possible they didn’t even truly care for them. While, I won’t make any accusations though. Regardless of that, it was still a sad recording to watch, but I think in his mind at the time he may of been in denial or was hopeful or believing that she would come back and it hadn’t fully sunken in yet they were truly gone. I didn’t see, loss, on him as much as I did see, anxiousness. There was heart ache, he did miss his daughter, and I felt for him. But, it wasn’t yet, grief, it was pensiveness- anticipating something was going to happen. 

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Okay after I heard the part about what happened when they were on Dr. Phil my thoughts are, “oh my god just break up already” they bring out the absolute worst in each other- regardless of if their individually sane people, or individually abusive/bad people- this whole thing just screams like, toxic. So over board toxic. 

 

There is no saving a relationship like that lol like, that needs to end. 

 

The issue is though, people go on Dr. Phil for media attention, fame, and money. No? I think that things may of been exaggerated for the sake of drama, and she was hoping it would help her modeling career? I really dont’ know what they were trying to accomplish here- because if they were both trying to like genuinely work toward an agreement in the relationship and work on the relationship they wouldn’t talk to each other like that, people who talk to each other that way don’t have the mental bearings to go like, get help with their relationship they usually just dwindle into nothingness and drink themselves to death and they’re like, low functioning low emotional intelligence type people who destroy their own lives and live a miserable marriage to the death and end up cheating or something. 

 

So the dialogue was made up to go on dr. Phil is questionable, the whole thing is questionable 

 

i really don’t know whats *really* going on here i would need to dig deeper into it to know but 

 

the whole thing just seems very odd to me 

 

And has anyone tested the child to make sure she’s the actual child because her eyes were blue and now they aint dawg And she suddenly has a mole like 

 

i dunno my initial reaction looking at the thumbnail even was like, those aren’t the same girl 

last edit on 5/15/2020 11:07:39 PM
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Lmao the part about, “if they hit you and abuse you they don’t love you” part was unexpected and a little heavy but okay lol 

 

like, um. Both my parents hit me so um, when she said that i was like O.o my parents dont’ love me, thanks lol 

 

but no i agree, in every circumstance it’s absolutely uncalled for and should never be tolerated or taking place at all. But what happens when it does, is more complicated than just black and white, “ah ok, they did this, I’m leaving.” 

 

It takes a smart, and wise, person with strength, and experience, to be able to do that, and even then, sometimes with all of that they still don’t. It’s like, a brain washing sort of effect occurs in abusive relationships of any sort. 

last edit on 5/15/2020 11:11:20 PM
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