I know like what qualities I tend to like in girls but sometimes I surprise myself like
I don’t know if it’s completely possible to say I have a type 100% of the time because like the things I love about the person is the things that make them that person and not anyone else
BUT YEAH there are things I tend to like
it doesn’t mean tho that I can’t be attracted to someone who has none of these qualities
but yeah I mean the list is very long the subtle things I generally like but it doesn’t touch on like the most beautiful parts of a person and what I see in them that I really like
but here’s the basic list
-“cute”, aka small and quirky, slightly femme, short, thicc
-rack
-ass
-curls
-dark eyes like brown or black
-darker hair typically is preference
-European or Hispanic
-smiles A LOT
-smiles with the eyes too, just all the time. squinting? for some reason I find that attractive when ur eye is shaped like a half sun
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-bubbly light personality but on the shyer side
-reserved, even sexually. Plays hard to get and like isn’t “easy” slutty or wears revealing clothes or objectifying sexualizinf themselves
for real that’s the biggest turn off to me is when a girl doesn’t cover up and when she like tries too hard or is fake to like turn you on and just does really general basic moves to flirt physically or trying to entice you and it’s just like no don’t do that just be ur self please and be genuine and chill like I don’t want to be seduced as if you are like... some sort of wanna be stripper stop doing that please
what I like is the exact opposite of that like... I like “good girls”
-is chill!! Like like super drama-y and super just not chill hard to explain that but like, when I meet a girl who’s “cool” I know. And I’m like ah she’s cool... eeeee
hard to explain what cool is to me gah
-nice and empathetic but stubborn and slightly a bitch like slightly, just slightly mean in a matter of fact way
-has a darker or more Edgier side. Elegant or edgy darkness either one
-likes old music
-has an appreciation for art And music and is a artistic creative type
-values life? Likes babies and plants and doesn’t want to harm insects, may love animals quite a bit of nature
-adventurous, free thinking, free spirited.
-self sufficient. Strong independent woman type. This doesn’t necessarily mean confident. But supports themselves
-if she’s into women’s rights or hates men I think that’s hot
-laughs at my horrible jokes and genuinely thinks I’m funny despite how horribly not funny I find myself!!! It’s nice to be admired or to see their admiration from time to time like blatantly on their face in the way they treat you or look at you or things they say
-sweet gentle quiet nurturing nature. Slight mom vibes
-usually a kinesthetic type lover. There a 5 love languages and I always date people consistently who are so that says something. I like kinesthetic lovers aka I like being touched lol
that’s a really good example of what I lik, like I was saying earlier that I don’t like being fake sexual but being like sweet and gentle and just like a girl reached over and just started playing with my hand and like rubbing her fingers on mine and that was the sexiest form of touch and like initiating that. (This girl really understood me sexually lol) and she would like run her finger a long my waste band of my trousers without saying anything. That’s what I like. Subtle. I don’t need like to be grinded on. I don’t have a dick, what are you doing.
-I’m a quality of time type as well so that’s a huge one for me just spending lots of time talking and together doing things together togetherness, synchronicity, meshing of our lives. Don’t cimpartmentalizd me Out of ur life I don’t like that shit
-super kind
