The attention must be worth it if she has low expectations
I guess everyone gets their sick thrills somehow...
Except negative attention triggers their high neuroticism. Which was the point I was arriving to. Turncoat alludes that she got attention and thus it's good, except borderlines and narcissists and even histrionics are hurt pretty badly by personal attacks. They might act like it doesn't bother them, but everyone knows it does.
The attention must be worth it if she has low expectations
I guess everyone gets their sick thrills somehow...
Except negative attention triggers their high neuroticism. Which was the point I was arriving to. Turncoat alludes that she got attention and thus it's good, except borderlines and narcissists and even histrionics are hurt pretty badly by personal attacks. They might act like it doesn't bother them, but everyone knows it does.
But is negative attention worse than no attention for her?
The attention must be worth it if she has low expectations
I guess everyone gets their sick thrills somehow...
Except negative attention triggers their high neuroticism. Which was the point I was arriving to. Turncoat alludes that she got attention and thus it's good, except borderlines and narcissists and even histrionics are hurt pretty badly by personal attacks. They might act like it doesn't bother them, but everyone knows it does.
But is negative attention worse than no attention for her?
Define worse. No one wants to be outed from a group they've invested themselves into. This is a massive cope.
The attention must be worth it if she has low expectations
I guess everyone gets their sick thrills somehow...
Except negative attention triggers their high neuroticism. Which was the point I was arriving to. Turncoat alludes that she got attention and thus it's good, except borderlines and narcissists and even histrionics are hurt pretty badly by personal attacks. They might act like it doesn't bother them, but everyone knows it does.
But is negative attention worse than no attention for her?
Define worse. No one wants to be outed from a group they've invested themselves into. This is a massive cope.
Aub seems like the kind of person who needs near-constant social stimulation. Why do you think she keeps coming back? Negative attention still feeds something for her, even if she hates it. Especially in a combative atmosphere like SC where she can write it off as jealousy or desperation. If the forum ignored her entirely there's nothing to construe into what she needs reality to be. There's just dead air. I think she hates being left alone with her own thoughts.
The attention must be worth it if she has low expectations
I guess everyone gets their sick thrills somehow...
Except negative attention triggers their high neuroticism. Which was the point I was arriving to. Turncoat alludes that she got attention and thus it's good, except borderlines and narcissists and even histrionics are hurt pretty badly by personal attacks. They might act like it doesn't bother them, but everyone knows it does.
But is negative attention worse than no attention for her?
Define worse. No one wants to be outed from a group they've invested themselves into. This is a massive cope.
Aub seems like the kind of person who needs near-constant social stimulation. Why do you think she keeps coming back? Negative attention still feeds something for her, even if she hates it. Especially in a combative atmosphere like SC where she can write it off as jealousy or desperation. If the forum ignored her entirely there's nothing to construe into what she needs reality to be. There's just dead air. I think she hates being left alone with her own thoughts.
Good point 👌
The attention must be worth it if she has low expectations
I guess everyone gets their sick thrills somehow...
Except negative attention triggers their high neuroticism. Which was the point I was arriving to. Turncoat alludes that she got attention and thus it's good, except borderlines and narcissists and even histrionics are hurt pretty badly by personal attacks. They might act like it doesn't bother them, but everyone knows it does.
But is negative attention worse than no attention for her?
Define worse. No one wants to be outed from a group they've invested themselves into. This is a massive cope.
Aub seems like the kind of person who needs near-constant social stimulation. Why do you think she keeps coming back? Negative attention still feeds something for her, even if she hates it. Especially in a combative atmosphere like SC where she can write it off as jealousy or desperation. If the forum ignored her entirely there's nothing to construe into what she needs reality to be. There's just dead air. I think she hates being left alone with her own thoughts.
Good point 👌
Agreed, that's why I've stopped fat shaming her. She will respond incessantly and ive come to realize that its bc she gets the attn she wants and her delusions protect her against any insults I make. 1000 defense.
The attention must be worth it if she has low expectations
I guess everyone gets their sick thrills somehow...
Except negative attention triggers their high neuroticism. Which was the point I was arriving to. Turncoat alludes that she got attention and thus it's good, except borderlines and narcissists and even histrionics are hurt pretty badly by personal attacks. They might act like it doesn't bother them, but everyone knows it does.
But is negative attention worse than no attention for her?
Define worse. No one wants to be outed from a group they've invested themselves into. This is a massive cope.
Aub seems like the kind of person who needs near-constant social stimulation. Why do you think she keeps coming back? Negative attention still feeds something for her, even if she hates it. Especially in a combative atmosphere like SC where she can write it off as jealousy or desperation. If the forum ignored her entirely there's nothing to construe into what she needs reality to be. There's just dead air. I think she hates being left alone with her own thoughts.
Good point 👌
Agreed, that's why I've stopped fat shaming her. She will respond incessantly and ive come to realize that its bc she gets the attn she wants and her delusions protect her against any insults I make. 1000 defense.
And it only took you less than three months to realise
The attention must be worth it if she has low expectations
I guess everyone gets their sick thrills somehow...
Except negative attention triggers their high neuroticism. Which was the point I was arriving to. Turncoat alludes that she got attention and thus it's good, except borderlines and narcissists and even histrionics are hurt pretty badly by personal attacks. They might act like it doesn't bother them, but everyone knows it does.
But is negative attention worse than no attention for her?
Define worse. No one wants to be outed from a group they've invested themselves into. This is a massive cope.
Aub seems like the kind of person who needs near-constant social stimulation. Why do you think she keeps coming back? Negative attention still feeds something for her, even if she hates it. Especially in a combative atmosphere like SC where she can write it off as jealousy or desperation. If the forum ignored her entirely there's nothing to construe into what she needs reality to be. There's just dead air. I think she hates being left alone with her own thoughts.
Good point 👌
Agreed, that's why I've stopped fat shaming her. She will respond incessantly and ive come to realize that its bc she gets the attn she wants and her delusions protect her against any insults I make. 1000 defense.
And it only took you less than three months to realise
I only fat shamed her for a week
