I wasn't gonna make a serious post like this but given that my last post just looked like an immature narcissistic rage I should probably explain what's going on as well as rebuke some egregious claims.
I'll start with the smallest deal- Trypt, whom is pretty ignorant on the situation given his reaction during the voice call to what I was saying, decided it'd be smart to basically offer Delora to get back with him, hence my last post. He's trying to tell me how it is in my situation, when I already know how it is. He's trying to act like this guy who only wants to be her friend and is just there to give advice as if any guy least of all him actually just does that without ulterior motives.
But aside from his warped take, yes there has some been conflict between the person I'm living with and Delora as well as myself. I'm not happy about it and I don't agree with it. But how I deal with this isn't up to me because as of now this is the only place I have to live where I can consistently commute to school from and so essentially I can't afford to be kicked out. It isn't as it I'm not looking for apartments every day but since they have to be pet friendly and have a month by month lease for our current plans it has been really hard finding a new place. So in the meantime, Delora and this person have to get along and I have to keep my cool.
Because when it comes down to it, my pride and temper even if righteous, is not worth putting my education on the line and subjecting us to crushing loan payments, and all for nothing. In the long run dealing with this situation at least until we find a new place or I end this semester with good grades is not nearly as bad as me missing classes and losing all this time and money. It's a sacrifice for our future and my career and our stability in life. And Trypt is sitting there getting drunk, offering my wife MDMA to "cure her autism", and giving his opinion and judgements about something he don't know shit about, all the while drunkenly proposing for her to get back with him. Yeah, fuck that.
Our relationship isn't falling apart, we're not on the brink of divorce. Our love is very strong and we're just stressed as fuck and maybe not handling it correctly. But I know we'll get through it and in a few months we'll be in a much better place and I'm going to make damn sure she goes to a place she loves to make up for needing her to deal with this bullshit because I do love her very much and feel really guilty about being forced to have her deal with all this. So please Allister, can you please keep your opinions to yourself until you know the whole situation and never talk to my wife again?
