^ My life :) Everything Pastypenis wishes she could be, including truly lusted after by Alice instead of faked and settled for :)
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Defense mechanisms make it difficult to see what is happening. You feel attacked because several people point out the same things. And to be honest, it seems like there are some valid points being made. But you are not addressing them seriously.
As she'd put it, the person we're judging is just "a character" anyway, so there's nothing for her to fix since the "real" her is otherwise pure perfection.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
Defense mechanisms make it difficult to see what is happening. You feel attacked because several people point out the same things. And to be honest, it seems like there are some valid points being made. But you are not addressing them seriously.
As she'd put it, the person we're judging is just "a character" anyway, so there's nothing for her to fix since the "real" her is otherwise pure perfection.
True actually
Why did you react so defensively?
desdain doesnt equal defensive, stupid Learn2psychology kk? then get back to me
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If we were a PB&J sandwich... lets just say I'm the peanut butter in this relationship.
I keep calling people on their shit and when they are being jealous and acting jealous and projecting, but then instead of acknowledging the truth they try to reverse it and say I'm jealous but thats the farthest thing from the truth
What if it was a reason other than jealousy that made people pick at you though? There's tons of motivations for it otherwise, generally speaking.
Do you figure people are jealous when they go at Med?
I dont get jealous because I dont even want to be alive, I want to be dead but there are many reasons I'm choosing not to take my own life.
So let me get this straight: Because I want to die... I can't ever be jealous of you? Is this how this works now?
but honestly looking back ive never really been jealous of anything or anyone. I just mostly take life as it comes, observe, try to make the best out of my circumstances and am pretty apathetic
Lol bullshit, you're extreme, and frankly I think that's one of your positive traits.
You still try to be "top dog" in anything you do, though, which reeks of insecurity. You even got kinda weird for a tiny bit over Blanc learning coding at the same time that you were.
You can't face your own shit, so you see that shit screaming at you in the form of the things you type and the things you see in others. Even who you attack and defend here is entirely based on your room to transfer your own baggage onto it, and that baggage is subject to change over nothing.
You cant change how I experience life and what I feel emotionally just by wishing it to be so lmfaoooo
But you can?
its pretty pathetic to me how hard some of you try to project your shit onto me but its ok, doesnt change my life at all and it just makes you appear even dumber, more jealous and more desperate to me *shrugs*
Why is it so hard for you to see flaws in yourself beyond the ones you've beyond trivialized the weight of? Seriously, you're God Complex tier with a really blurry and egotistically impressionable memory of the past.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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I can tell you this much your interpretation of me is schizo and insanity warped beyond belief ahahahahahahaha this is why your psychology degree led you to do nothing helpful for others or have a carreer, because you are too stupid to truly grasp psychology :)
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Defense mechanisms make it difficult to see what is happening. You feel attacked because several people point out the same things. And to be honest, it seems like there are some valid points being made. But you are not addressing them seriously.
If they were valid I would address them, but the ones I dont address are projections in which case I will just call them out for projecting or ignore. You're incorrect
What ones have you addressed over the years you've found yourself on SC?
From what I've seen, you'll address points for their perceived validity only after you've calmed down. Once you've had a breather, you can outright switch perspectives in an argument.
Sorry if it hurts, but I'm in the right and the one who is being honest
Just because it feels right doesn't always mean it is right, and being honest only means you're telling it to us as you see it instead of trying to disguise it.
In that respect, many of us are being honest too, making it a moot point imo. The clash remains over which is correct plainly, and your means of appraising that tends to be emotionally instead of scholarly. Still, to your credit, you will study something if someone triggers you into doing it, so most of your problems are really just a lack of personal motivation.
when you are suicidal, you actually lose all defense mechanisms.
No, no you don't.
A lot of suicidal people hate themselves over their defense mechanisms being louder than their desires, and most find a way to kill themselves that circumvents that potential entirely (firing a bullet into your skull, poisoning yourself, etc).
I tried killing myself the slow way, the body has a way of convincing you otherwise until you regret it later.
Ive been suicidal my entire life so...
You'd be listed as having suicidal ideation, maybe tendencies at worst.
You aren't actively trying to kill yourself all the time, you just have a screaming sense of malaise.
...........if you understood psychology at all, what I'm saying rn would make sense to you but unfortunately it seems you do not
I love these lines.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔