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A lot of up-to no good things tbh.

I try not to keep one, it's too depressing. 

Turncoat said: 

I try not to keep one, it's too depressing. 

 Why?

Not having one would mean you don't wanna do anything before you die, so you might as well just drop dead.

If the bucket list is not completed yet, I cannot afford to go commit die.

user22212 said: 

Turncoat said: 

I try not to keep one, it's too depressing. 

 Why?

Not having one would mean you don't wanna do anything before you die, so you might as well just drop dead.

I can still like pleasant surprises, comforts I take for granted, and the vicarious experiences that come from following other people's plans. 

If the bucket list is not completed yet, I cannot afford to go commit die.

Your reason for sticking around's that arbitrary? 

Turncoat said:

Your reason for sticking around's that arbitrary?

I could ask you the exact same thing. Is "I like living" a less arbitrary reason to live than "I have stuff to do"? How do you know you really like it? How do you measure this liking, what if it's not actually worth it?

user22212 said: 

Turncoat said:

Your reason for sticking around's that arbitrary?

I could ask you the exact same thing. Is "I like living" a less arbitrary reason to live than "I have stuff to do"? How do you know you really like it? How do you measure this liking, what if it's not actually worth it?

Your entire idea of living life in your notion of the bucket list is just designing a life around pre-conceived plans. 

I've myself anyway found more out of life when I stopped trying to control it as much and "just see what happens". Life can be enjoyable over things you aren't focusing on, and the things you are focusing on could just serve as a disappointment over how you're not there right now. 

get over my fear of spiders

travel to india and japan

headbutt someone

stab someone

draw a pint of blood using only my nails

Turncoat said:

Your entire idea of living life in your notion of the bucket list is just designing a life around pre-conceived pans.

 Not entirely true. It's adjustable! I want things out of life. I will get them. It's entirely possible to give up on what I don't want anymore, or add other things.

Turncoat said:

I've myself anyway found more out of life when I stopped trying to control it as much and "just see what happens". Life can be enjoyable over things you aren't focusing on, and the things you are focusing on could just serve as a disappointment over how you're not there right now.

What's disappointing is being there right now actually. With the motivation gone, and nothing to do, it stagnates and gets incredibly boring. I never said I don't enjoy things that I am not focusing on. But I do choose things to focus on.

I can fit the idea you're presenting in a simplistic bucket list though:

1) experience life

2020 baby!