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Why do I keep rejecting men for the dumb reasons? 

- Giving advice other than letting me vent... and as if he just wants to fix it.

- Calling me pretty... and making me assume he won't love me when I'm old.

 

 A pretty girl such as yourself shouldn't reject men solely over those reasons. You should instead see if your personalities match, and if they have money, and if they're muscular.

 This is a good joke. LAUGH!

 Lol yeah it made me laugh :p 

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as a serious answer, its because you think any man who wants u must be beneath u and that you wish a man would like you for the deep rich personality that you dont actually have (you are quite typical and a basic girl) so you reject those who find u visually attractive.
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At least you know they're dumb reasons. Maybe you just have too many unrealistic expectations for a relationship that no one is meeting yet. When I wanted to rant to people I knew or to my ex, I'd tell them " I don't want any advice, I just wanna vent and be angry." And they typically understood.

What do you want in a relationship?

 

 

What do you want in a relationship?

^

Well first and foremost I want a Christian (not a crazy one or one that's non practicing). Then I was someone who's level headed and balanced. They should not be easily angered and just be chill. Especially someone mature (not that they can't be funny just in important matters). I can be childlike and funny at times and that's fine. I want someone who's better than intellectually me yet humble about it. I also want someone who helps me be a better version of myself without being condescending or forcing me to change. It's more like a motivational thing where they gently steer me to be my best self. I want someone who is not superficial so they like my personality. Too many times people have told me "stand there pretty and be quiet". Being attracted to me physically isn't enough as it must be that they love me. 

And overall... I want someone in love with me. I mean if someone doesn't love me then I don't love them. I don't even trust them enough to love them unless I can tell they are in love with me. Like actual love and not just attraction or interest.

last edit on 2/21/2020 12:27:44 AM
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I dont think those are dumb reasons at all. Not wanting to date someone because they say or do things that makes you uncomfortable is perfectly valid. Relationships are not a requirement for happiness, and you do not need to suppress your feelings to make yourself be with someone who you arent compatible with.

 

There are 3.5 billion men on earth, you will find a guy who doesnt do those things and makes you very happy.

 Thanks! Yeah I shouldn't settle... I just feel like I may be marking people off too soon. I don't know though... if I don't feel it then I don't feel it. 

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cos you're immature and not ready for a serious relationship. you're doing kiddie stuff rn, don't force it but don't avoid it either

Perhaps I'm not ready...

I really only want cuddles lol xD Otherwise I want to be left alone. 

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Why do I keep rejecting men for the dumb reasons? 

- Giving advice other than letting me vent... and as if he just wants to fix it.

- Calling me pretty... and making me assume he won't love me when I'm old.

 

 A pretty girl such as yourself shouldn't reject men solely over those reasons. You should instead see if your personalities match, and if they have money, and if they're muscular.

 no simping, true bro

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its because u realize they are only gonna pump and dump a fat indian looking thot, good on u

 she was scammed by cane for a good sum, asked it back but he didnt give XD

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its because u realize they are only gonna pump and dump a fat indian looking thot, good on u

 she was scammed by cane for a good sum, asked it back but he didnt give XD

Scammed? I gave it freely... He was in a tight spot. I was just upset that he insisted on paying me back then didn't. I don't like people not staying true to their word. There's nothing romantic about it. I did it for God and my own integrity. 

last edit on 2/21/2020 1:38:28 AM
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Lol the son of Ed would be something like Joaquin's Joker. I can imagine the man having a child with some unknown girl he met on internet and leaving it be.

except edvard didn't behave anywhere close like the joker

if the joker wasn't a fictional person and a user here, edvard would've told him "you have no issues, go get your dick wet bro"

last edit on 2/21/2020 1:39:56 AM
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