Ok that's unequivocally grooming. You shouldn't be talking to people aged under 18 on the internet at all, there's no excusable reason to be knowingly doing that.
I mean that's fine if you want to delete her name from thread, she's a lawyer in San Diego and I'll probably just add it to the other forum.
It's not like those who are concerned don't already have the name.
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what is the other forum
The fruitfarm